Toxic Love: The Michael Hutchence & Paula Yates Story | Part Three

(Paula Yates. Picture credit: mirror.co.uk)

Continued from part two... 

Paula really struggled with her grief over Michael's death, she never recovered from it. She spent her days drinking, taking drugs and would have shady characters at her home. She would often be seen out at a local cafe with a well known heroin dealer.

She said in an interview ''when Michael died I was tipped over the edge, I was beyond grief''

Paula Yates was always known for her glamourous outifits and confident, often forward manner, it was so tragic to see how she had become a shadow of her former self. 

Sometimes she would be spotted walking to the local shop barefoot to buy 6 minature bottles of vodka. She would do this a few times a day.

On the morning of 17th of September 2000, someone called Paula's home and Tiger answered and told them that she couldn't wake her mother up. The friend rushed over to the house where she found Paula's body and called an ambulance, she was pronounced dead. She was 41 years old. 

She was found to have died from an accidental heroin overdose.

Paula's funeral took place on the 23rd of September 2000 and Bob sorted out all of the funeral arrangements. The cover of ''These Boots Were Made For Walking'' sung by Paula was played at the service. 

Bob got custody of Tiger and brought her up alongside her sisters. There was some difficulties with Michael's family over custody of Tiger, Michael's sister tried to apply for custody but failed. Tiger remained with Bob and her name was changed to Heavenly Hiraani Tiger Lily Hutchence Geldof. 

More sadness was to occur when Paula's daughter Peaches (who was the spitting image of Paula) died of a heroin overdose at the age of 25. The day before she died she uploaded a picture of herself and Paula.

This whole story was a sad and tragic tale. It's hard to know how to describe it, I do believe there was a lot of love between Paula and Michael but there was also a self distruct button that they both shared. Some people wonder why Michael left Helena Christensen for Paula, what some people don't realise about Paula was her confidence, her flirty behaviour. There were times when Paula could be really sexy and glamorous and did have that ''naughty girl'' persona about her which I imagine attracted Michael to her. There was also the fact that she was determined to seduce Michael and that may have turned him on, they seemed to have the same kind of sexual tastes but I didn't want to get into all of that in these posts, obviously there is so much to this story but I tried to keep it as brief as possible. 

I don't blame Paula for Michael's death, I think the two of them just got into such a mess and Paula did play games but I'm sure she had no idea things would turn out like they had. I also wonder, as well as everything else with the grief etc, if Paula had a hard time getting older, she was in her 40s and couldn't play the flirtatious girl anymore, maybe she struggled trying to find out who she was. I feel sorry for what happened to her and Michael, both were struggling and they met at the wrong time. 

Michael is a legend and always will be and continues to influence up and coming artists and bands. I love listening to INXS music and I also like watching some of Paula's interviews on The Tube from the 1980s. Both were such bright personalities, it should have worked between them but sadly things didn't go that way.

(Michael & Paula. Picture credit: chinchillanews.com)

RIP Michael, Paula & Peaches x

Toxic Love: The Michael Hutchence & Paula Yates Story | Part Two

(Michael Hutchence & Paula Yates. Picture credit: telegraph.co.uk)

Continued from part one....

As hard as it was to be separated from Paula and the girls, Michael had to fly to Australia for a tour to mark the 20th anniversary of the band and to promote the new single ''Elegantly Wasted''. Paula and Michael made plans for the holidays for Paula to come out with the girls to see Michael, he was so excited about this.

Michael seemed to be in good spirits and had drinks with friends in his hotel room and attended rehearsals. He knew the situation with Bob would continue to be a nightmare but he seemed to be focused on seeing Paula and the girls. 

On the night of the 21st of November 1997 he had dinner with his father and seemed to be fine although his father later said that looking back, Michael may have been covering up what he was really feeling. At the end of the dinner Michael smiled and danced away back up to his hotel room. There was nothing strange or worrying about his behaviour.

For the rest of that night Michael appeared to be excited waiting on Paula's phonecall from London, he was in his hotel room drinking with friends and taking some substances. At one point the friends had left and Michael continued to stay up and wait for Paula's call. In the early hours of the 22nd of November 1997, Paula called to say that she wouldn't be bringing the girls out to Australia because Bob had got a court injunction which banned the girls from travelling out of the country. Michael was furious. 

(Michael, Tiger and Paula. Picture credit: smh.com)

At some point during the early hours, a guest in the room next to Michael's overheard a heated conversation. They said it was a man shouting ''She's not your wife anymore''. Paula later claimed that Bob had said to Michael during this phonecall ''Remember, I'm above the law''.

Michael continued to suffer alone in his hotel room and tried to make a few phonecalls. He spoke to his business manager and ex girlfriend and in both of those phonecalls he was highly emotional. His ex girlfriend (who he often rang in times of trouble) Michele was very concerned so she decided to come over to the hotel to see him. His business manager, Martha said that he left an angry message on her answer machine saying ''I don't give a f*ck anymore''. 

Michele came to the hotel but couldn't get an answer so she assumed that Michael had fallen asleep and left a message at the front desk for him. At around 11:50am, a maid tried to get into Michael's room and couldn't get the door open, it soon became apparent that Michael's deceased body was behind the door. He was naked and had tied a snakeskin belt over the security latch at the top of the door. One can only imagine what that poor maid must have felt being in that situation or how Michele must feel. Michael was just 37 years old. 

Paula refused to believe it, when she was told by her assistant she slapped her across the face and told her she was lying. Paula went into a really deep state of depression and denial. The whole story about Michael's death by Erotic Asphyxiation was invented by Paula who refused to believe that he had taken his whole life. The Erotic Asphyxiation story went worldwide and for years (even up until recently even though it was confirmed to be suicide) a lot of people believed it. Some people were cruel and made jokes about it. I felt that it took a little bit of dignity and respect away from Michael to hear people talking like that and for Paula to say such a thing.

She said he would never leave his daughter which we can believe to be true if he was of sound body and mind, he was really out of it and so depressed that I don't think he even knew what he was doing, it could have been a spilt second decision, just the night before he was excited and looking forward to seeing Paula and the girls. 

Paula had a narcissistic side to her and I'm not saying that she didn't care about Tiger's feelings or Michael's feelings about his daughter but there was a sense of ''He would never leave me'' about the whole thing.

Michael's funeral took place on the 27th of November 1997 in Sydney. The night before the funeral, Michael's brother claimed that Paula had put a gram of heroin in Michael's pocket.

(Michael & Tiger. Picture credit: dailytelegraph.com)

Michael was cremated and his ashes were divided up between his parents and Paula. His father scattered his ashes in Sydney Harbour.  

Paula did an interview where she spoke about both Michael and Bob, even in that interview she played the two men off against each other. I'll never forget her comment aimed at Bob ''It's hard to be playing pubs when someone else is playing stadiums''. 

She obviously knew that Bob's music career was important to him and that he regretted the fact that The Boomtown Rats didn't go as well as he'd hoped. Paula could be cold when she wanted to be. 

Paula claimed that Michael was the love of her life but it wasn't long until she was back in the newspapers dating other men. One ex boyfriend even went to the newspapers saying that Paula kept a cushion filled with Michael's ashes on her bed. 

After Michael's death, Paula had some stints in rehab and a number of flings. Gone were the days of babydoll dresses and bows in her hair, she was looking drained and exhausted. 

She never got over Michael's death and for the next two years she battled to get through the days, weeks and months and more tragedy was just around the corner...


Continued in part three...

Toxic Love: The Michael Hutchence & Paula Yates Story | Part One

(Michael Hutchence & Paula Yates. Picture credit: chinchillanews.com)

Back in the 1990's when Paula Yates and Michael Hutchence were discovered to have been in a relationship, it caused newspaper headlines. She was known as the bubbly English TV presenter who was married to ''national treasure'' Bob Geldof (The Boomtown Rats frontman and co-creator of the famous 1985 charity concert, Live Aid) and he was an Australian rock superstar from INXS who was loved the world over and in a relationship with the beautiful supermodel, Helena Christensen.

Michael (born in Crows Nest, Australia on the 22nd of January 1960) always had an eye for the ladies and they had an eye for him but he had a lot of respect for Helena at that time and didn't want his affair with Paula to become public knowledge. Michael had a really hard time in the UK because of the British tabloids and they often painted him as the villain who stole Bob Geldof's wife. The newspapers would often print unflattering pictures of Paula and would often compare her next to Helena. Both of them didn't have an easy time when it came to the press but what Michael didn't know was that Paula had become quite a master at finding ways to gain publicity. According to Paula's former assistant Gerry Agar, Paula arranged for Michael to spend time with her at a hotel in London in secrecy but what she had actually done was inform the press beforehand and that was how the affair was discovered. One can only imagine what Helena and Bob felt as they picked up the newspapers to see Paula and Michael splashed across them.

(Paula Yates & Bob Geldof. Picture credit: chinchillanews.com)

Over the years I have read various books about Paula and Michael (I'll post the links to some of them in my third and final post) to try and get a view from all sides and one that seems to be a common fact is that Paula was obsessed with Michael and would have done anything to keep him and didn't care who that hurt in the process. At the time he was with her, Michael was in a bad place, there were problems in his career, he often felt lonely, suffered from bouts of depression and he was struggling to come to terms with a brain injury that left him with a loss of taste and smell.

(Helena Christensen & Michael Hutchence. Picture credit: foxnews.com)

The two of them met years before the famous ''Bed Interview'' when Paula interviewed Michael on the TV show ''The Tube''. According to Paula he invited her up to his hotel room that night. Paula was told to leave Michael alone as she had often flirtied with the male guests and was rumoured to have had a few flings with them. INXS's road manager at the time said Paula told him, ''I'm going to have that boy''. After The Tube interview, Paula would go to INXS shows and kept in contact with Michael. Paula had always had a thing for Michael Hutchence and Bob knew this, she would keep a picture of the rockstar on their fridge and Bob would constantly rip it off and she'd just replace it with another one.

(Paula interviewing Michael on ''The Tube''. Picture credit. standard.co.uk)

Paula wrote about her marriage to Bob in her autobiography and claimed that there were problems long before Michael and her got together. Paula was born in Colwyn Bay, Wales on the 24th of April 1959 and got together with Bob Geldof in 1976. They had a star studded wedding in 1986, the guest list was like a who's who of the 1980s and the marriage lasted until 1996.

(The famous bed interview on The Big Breakfast show. Picture credit: you.co.uk)

Paula had already had three children with Bob, Fifi Trixibelle, Peaches and Pixie. Shortly after her divorce from Bob in 1996, Paula gave birth to Heavenly Hiranni Tiger Lily, her fourth child and Michael's first. They called her ''Tiger'' for short.

(Michael, Paula & Tiger. Picture credit: theguardian.com)

According to Paula, she and Michael had been trying for a baby for about a year and they were both over the moon when Tiger was born. Michael adored his little girl and you would think that the birth of the baby would bring their relationship closer but people close to Michael said that he felt trapped by Paula.

Some people believed that Paula got pregnant to stop Michael from leaving her. There was no doubt that he was devoted to his daughter and he grew so close to Paula's other daughters too. For someone who was a bit of a ladies man and rockstar, behind the scenes, Michael was quiet and just wanted the simple things in life and he seemed to take to fatherhood quite naturally.

The situation between Paula and Bob was difficult, Paula and Michael's nanny claimed that she found drugs in the couple's bedroom as well as x rated photos. There was a battle for custody of the girls and things turned very ugly, the pressure was getting to Michael and stories kept ''leaking'' to the press (allegedly via Paula who seemed to be enjoying the attention whilst both Michael and Bob were struggling to deal with the situtaion). Michael just wanted to go back to Australia but Paula was tied to London because of the girls.

Continued in part two...

Victim of The Porn Industry or Con Artist?: The Shelley Lubben Story | Part Two

(Shelley Lubben. Picture Credit: howardstern.com)

Continued from Part One...

So, Shelley vanished into thin air, she went into hiding when everything was coming out. Her addiction to alcohol and drugs was spiralling out of control and some people believe that she was never sober to begin with.

Everything seemed to have just stopped, there was no new videos on her channel, nobody knew where she was. She was still estranged from her children.

She ended up with a new boyfriend who was also an addict and the pair of them were a mess, people commented that Shelley was in such a state at this point that they would not have been surprised if she'd ended up taking an accidental overdose or ended up in jail at some point.

(Shelley Lubben, Picture Credit: slubben/twitter)

People's concerns were justified when an incident happened where a man was out riding on his bike one day and Shelley and her boyfriend were driving (he was driving the car) both of them were heavily loaded up on prescription pills and who knows what else. The car crashed into the man and he sadly lost his life. It was recorded as a ''hit and run'' so obviously they must have took off in the car but luckily her boyfriend was sent to prison for this. Apparently he already had a criminal record so was not new to being on the wrong side of the law.

At around the time of February 2019, Shelley had been continually battling her alcoholism and had been in hospital because of it.

Gone were the days of luxury houses and glitz and glam from the proceeds of the foundation, she was now living in a run down trailer park called Lemon Cove in California. Her daughter Tiffany had sadly passed away at just 30 years old after taking her own life, they'd been estranged for a while and whilst she was alive, Tiffany claimed that Shelley abused her in so many ways. A few people who had gotten close to Shelley later said the same thing, that she had caused so much trouble in their lives.

Just a few days after her daughter Tiffany's death, Shelley was found dead in her trailer on the 9th of February 2019 by a male friend, she was just 50 years old. She was found in her bed with bloody liquid in her mouth. It was a suspected overdose and alcohol withdrawal, whether or not it was an accident or she took her own life it's hard to say as sources vary. There are sources that say Shelley was heartbroken over tiffany's death and she died of a stroke, some say she died of an intentional overdose and there are even claims that she could have been murdered. 

The few people who still had a good word to say about her claim that she had plans to make a comeback with the foundation and get sober for good, others were not shocked by her death because they could see that she's been on a rocky road for a long time.

(Shelley and her boyfriend. Picture credit: thedevilandshelleylubben)

The truth was, Shelley was not on the road to recovery, she had three restraining orders out against her and an upcoming arrest, she had a lot of serious financial problems which is probably why she was living in the trailer. At 50 years old, where was she going to go from there? She had burnt all of her bridges and had nobody to turn to.

Shelley always had issues with her health and was not in the best shape physically or psychologically just before she died.

Apparently the guy who found her took off with her car and her iphone.

There was no funeral and her death wasn't even reported in the newspapers. She was cremated and there was no obituary or tributes, her ashes were scattered somewhere private.

It was a sad, tragic end to a roller coaster of a life. She was really messed up and no matter how people tried to help her she never got better. From a young age she was geared towards money and to get money in any way shape or form. She may have had the best of intentions with the foundation (there were people who did say that she helped them beat their addictions and change their lives) but the greed got to her.

This is just my opinion but I do think that something must have gone on in her childhood for her to turn to prostitution at the age of 16. Shelley said that her Dad had said to her ''You are dead to me'' during an argument, some people believe that her tense relationship with her father was what made her crave constant male attention others believe she was abused.

In regards to what Shelley claimed happened during her time in the porn industry, I can't say if that did or did not happen as I wasn't there. Whilst researching this case I was reminded of another former porn actress Linda Lovelace who claimed that she had suffered abuse in the porn industry especially at the hands of her husband, she became an activist for a while before briefly returning to the industry before her tragic death in a car accident. I think there's bad sides to every industry and I have seen and heard some porn stars say that they've suffered abuse whilst others say that they love their job and are treated fairly.

I also read some statements that Shelley had come under fire for speaking out about the porn industry and was being stalked and harassed to the point two of her previous homes was set on fire. I can't confirm if that's true or not but it seems that there are both supporters of Shelley and people who still claim that she was a fraud.

I'm not stating exactly what I think did or did not happen in the porn industry (there have been claims by former porn stars that a lot of the things Shelley spoke about were true and others who disagree), I've just included what I have found in my research and let you make your own mind up or continue looking into this more. I have included links below if you would like to see both Shelley's videos and other people's opinions on the matter. 

I hope you found this post interesting as much as I did researching it. I was shocked when I found out that Shelley had only died last year, all I knew about her was her activism, I couldn't believe all of the other stuff that went with her story.

I do think that somewhere deep down she wanted to do good for people and in a lot of cases she did help people but in other ways she hurt people, people who trusted her and loved her.

What are your thoughts on this? Let me know either below or message me in private by email (caledoniankblog@yahoo.co.uk) or anywhere on my social media pages.

RIP TIffany, Shelley & the man who tragically lost his life in the hit & run incident.


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Victim of The Porn Industry or Con Artist?: The Shelley Lubben Story | Part One


(Shelley Lubben. Picture Credit: last.fm)

This is a really strange story to share and one that I wondered how I would fit into my blog but it really interested me and so I decided to post it here especially as it has elements of true crime to it.

A few years ago I stumbled across this video on YouTube and it was a memorial video to porn stars who had lost their lives. The video was created by a woman called Shelley Lubben. I had a look at some of her other videos and it turned out that Shelley was a former porn actress who was now working as an activist trying to help other people who felt trapped in the porn industry. According to Shelley, drugs and abuse were rife in the porn industry with women and men being left traumatised, psychologically and physically damaged by their porn careers with nobody to turn to. She and her husband founded the Pink Cross Foundation which was a charity designed to help people leave the adult industry and support them with various issues and left over trauma that they may have had.

Shelley was a motivational speaker and both she and her husband were devout Christians. She was born on the 18th of May 1968 in Pasadena, California. Her family were reported to have been strict Christians but Shelley would often describe her childhood as a difficult one and later revealed that she had been sexually abused by her brother and sister (they claimed this to be a lie) when she was nine years old. Her parents were said to have done their best with her to help her but she was too far off the rails and they said that she would often make up stories in order to gain attention.

Shelley continued to spiral out of control and ended up working as a prostitute from the ages of 18 to 26. She says that during this time she learned how to look after herself in financial ways, as in, she learned how to con money out of men. She also ended up pregnant by one of her customers.

Despite her hectic lifestyle of drugs, alcohol and risky sex with strangers, she decided to keep the baby and try to be a proper mother to the child.

At one point she was diagnosed with Cervical Cancer due to the number of sexually transmitted diseases she had had.

Whilst she was still working as a prostitute she had a stint as a porn actress from 1993 to 1994, starring as ''Roxy'' in 15 hardcore porn movies. She later claimed that she had been forced to do these scenes and felt raped. Her co-stars later said that they were shocked to hear this and claimed that Shelley was more than eager to participate and in many cases she was quite aggressive and forceful in what she wanted to do in the scenes.

(Shelley Lubben. Picture Credit: businessinsider.com)

It is unclear what happened next but in 1994, Shelley was out of the porn industry. Some say it was because she wasn't that good an actress and at the age that she was, she was considered to be ''mature''. Shelley claims that she left the porn industry of her own accord due to contracting more sexual diseases. During her time out of the spotlight, she continued to battle with her drink and drug addiction but claimed to have finally found Jesus and had gotten married. She also studied at University and gained a Bachelor's Degree in Theological Studies as well as founding the Pink Cross Foundation.

Shelley would often appear in documentaries discussing the porn industry as well as speaking on various public platforms about her life and what she described as the dangers of the porn industry. When I watched some of her clips, she seemed quite a confident speaker and some of the things that she was saying, one could not help but feel empathetic, especially as she would often have other former porn stars echoing what she had said.

The Pink Cross Foundation looked and sounded like a blessing and some of the clips of what the charity actually did are still online. To me it looked like a really caring organisation. When it comes to my views on the porn industry, I don't think that everyone is in an abusive situation, I do believe that it does happen on some sets but I also believe that some people are treated right and that are quite comfortable with what they are doing. I also understand that some people may look back and regret some of the things that they did on film. Some of the things I have seen on twitter for example, I have seen clips from porn movies of women licking men's urine off the floor amongst other things. That sort of thing screams to me of desperation and degradation but the women in question flaunt it and act like it's something to be proud of and I feel sorry for them. I don't know how much they are being paid to lick urine off the floor but it can't be that much as they are always trying to get fans to pay subscriptions for their OnlyFans pages as well as constantly asking fans for CashApp donations and having to do escorting on the side.

I don't have an issue with porn or porn stars, if you're happy and confident within yourself and you are being treated right by the company or people you are working for then fair play to you. Shelley may have been someone who deeply regretted the things she had done in the past and used the porn industry as a scapegoat which many feel that she did. Other people did follow what she said and there have been people who have claimed that she changed their lives for the better and even saved a few marriages. Shelley has over 56,000 subscribers on YouTube so she did have some fans out there.

But everything wasn't as nice as it seemed with The Pink Cross Foundation. Rumours started going around that Shelley was using the funds for the charity to live a luxury lifestyle. She was often seen slurring her words and stumbling about. She claimed that she was sober but was often seen having glasses of wine at dinner meetings and someone claimed that they saw her taking prescription pills in her car.

(Shelley, her husband and their daughters, posing for The Pink Cross Foundation photos. Picture Credit: pinkcrossfoundation)

The cracks started to get bigger with more and more people starting to speak out about Shelley, saying that she was not to be trusted, even accusing her of being a liar and a fraud. The book she had written The Truth Behind The Fantasy of Porn was reported to have been filled with exaggerations.

Things got even more bizarre when Shelley had been found cheating on her husband with a younger man as well as the plastic surgery treatments & luxuries that were said to have come from the charity funds. It got to the point where Shelley couldn't hide what had been going on and officially closed The Pink Cross Foundation in 2016.

Her own brother who she had accused of molesting her as a child spoke out against her saying that she had been lying about her childhood. He contacted her on Facebook saying that he would continue to speak out against her if she continued to lie about their parents and their past.

Shelley seemed to go from bad to worse and everything was falling down around her. By this time she had three children who were not talking to her, her marriage to her husband had gone and her reputation was blackened and her charity was defunct.

Surely things couldn't get even worse? or could they?....


Continued in part two....


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The Playboy Bunny & The Sugardaddy | The Shocking Murder of Thomas Burchard

(Kelsey Turner. Picture Credit: heraldsun.com)

So this is a bizarre case that I stumbled across the other day. It may sound like a pretty open and shut case to a lot of people but what I found bizarre were the circumstances around the story and the people who were involved. This case was due to go to trial this summer (2020) but with the Covid-19 pandemic going on, I'm not sure whether the trial will be put off to a later date. It most probably will be postponed but I will briefly share the story with you and update later once the trial has taken place.


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So, let's get into the story....

Dr Thomas Burchard was a 71 year old retired Psychiatrist from California in the US, who was very popular with his patients as well as his colleagues. When he retired they were sad to see him go but he still kept in contact with them. Thomas cared about his job so much that when he did retire, he worried about how that would affect his patients, he was a very caring man by what people who knew him later reported and would often give money to charity and homeless people. He had a partner of 17 years called Judy and as far as she knew, they had an honest relationship. During his successful career there was never any trouble, he was always professional and never over stepped the mark or ever behaved inappropriately with any of his patients or colleagues.

(Dr Thomas Burchard. Picture Credit: reviewjournal.com)

However, there was a side to Thomas that very few knew and that was his taste for younger, attractive women. Women who were old enough to be his daughter, his granddaughter. He also had a taste for women who were older, in their 30s and 40s. He was in contact with quite a few women and in particular, one who was called Kelsey Turner who was a 25 year old blonde model who had done photoshoots for Playboy and Maxim.

Judy knew about these women (esp Kelsey) but was led to believe by Thomas that all he was doing was simply helping these women who had fallen on hard times and there was nothing sexual or romantic in it. What was actually happening was that Thomas was a ''Sugardaddy'' and these women were ''Sugarbabies''.

If you are unfamiliar with the terms, Sugardaddy is a guy who may have a successful job, usually aged 40 upwards (but I've read that some men in their 30s can be Sugardaddies too) who financially supports (usually) younger attractive women in exchange for company and sex. Sugarbabies are usually under 30 years old but again, I've read that some Sugarbabies can be older. Some Sugarbabies meet these men, have dinner with them and just spend time with them without sex and for some of these men that's all they are looking for, the company of an attractive female. Some Sugarbabies meet these men and engage in sex with them. The Sugardaddies reward the Sugarbabies with gifts, money, cars, houses etc.

A lot of the time these men are married but quite a lot are lonely and single too. In some cases both parties know that they are using eachother for sex or money but some women can take advantage of lonely men and pretend to have relationships with them in order to manipulate the men to give them money. There are Sugardaddies out there who take advantage of women too so there's no innocent side to any of this.

Kelsey Turner was one of Thomas's favourite Sugarbabies and he also had designs on her mother too. He had only known Kelsey, who was single mother of two children, for two years but over the course of those two years, he spent over $300,000 on her and her mother. He gave them money every month, bought them clothes, rented a house for them as well as cars. When Judy questioned this, Thomas told her that Kelsey was a single mother who was struggling financially and he was only helping her out because he didn't want to see her and her children homeless.
(Kelsey Turner. Picture Credit: www.facebook.com/KelseyLove93)

Thomas had been married before and had a history of meeting women online. I think it's quite obvious to anyone reading the details that he was a womaniser and Judy was either in denial about it or just turned a blind eye to it because either she loved him too much or she was with him for his financial security. I don't mean to sound harsh about Judy but what would you do if your partner of 17 years kept buying gifts for other women who were younger than you and going off to meet these women?

Thomas rented a fancy house for Kelsey as well as a BMW car. Thomas lived far away from this house so he was unaware that Kelsey actually had a boyfriend as well as friends who were staying with her. Her friends stayed rent-free at the house. Kelsey was quite happy about this arrangement and lived off of Thomas's payments every month, she later claimed that the ''relationship'' they had was not sexual and that he was just helping her out because he had a crush on her.

This arrangement went on for months but Kelsey was very possessive over Thomas and it was no secret that she didn't like Judy. Kelsey was always frightened that Thomas would find another Sugarbaby to replace her and that the money would stop rolling in. Kelsey would often contact him and ask him who he was with, where he was going. If he ever did plan to visit the house, she would tell her friends to leave the house so he wouldn't find out they had been staying there.

Suddenly, out of the blue, Thomas stopped paying the rent payments on the house and Kelsey and her friends were evicted. Kelsey was furious (it's unclear what happened next, we'll probably find out more at the trial about this part) but somehow she ended up living at another house in Las Vegas which Thomas ended up paying the rent for.

She may have made him feel guilty for having her evicted or she may have promised him sex to keep him sweet so that he would keep giving her money? Both he and Kelsey made plans for him to visit for the weekend. Thomas lied to Judy and told her he was going to see a show. Thomas arrived at the house and at some point Kelsey found out that Thomas has been sharing sexually explicit messages with her mother. When Thomas went to the grocery store with her friend (another young pretty blonde girl) Kelsey flew into a rage and accused the friend of trying to steal Thomas away from her.

When Thomas got back to the house there was an argument over money and Thomas reportedly said that he was going to stop giving Kelsey money. Kelsey threatened Thomas that if he stopped giving her money, she would tell the police that he molested children. He went upstairs to a room to get away from the fighting whilst Kelsey was continually screaming and shouting. Her boyfriend then took a baseball bat and barged into the room where Thomas was and assaulted him.

Kelsey's friend (Diana) ran into the room to to find Thomas with injuries to his head asking to go to the hospital. Diana grabbed the baseball bat from Kelsey's boyfriend (Jon) and both Jon and Kelsey went downstairs whilst she got some water for Thomas.

Thomas was disorientated and asked to go to the hospital, he promised that he wouldn't tell anyone what had happened, he would just tell the Doctors he had been mugged. Thomas went to the garage and got into the back of Kelsey's car (the one he had been paying for) with Diana and waited for Kelsey and Jon to come and drive to the hospital but both kelsey and Jon stayed inside the house.

Finally, Kelsey came to the garage and told Diana that she wanted the room that Thomas had been in cleaned as soon as possible and then they would take Thomas to the hospital. Diana later reported that the room was a mess and there was quite a bit of blood. Thomas refused to go back inside the house and wanted to go to the hospital.

Whilst Diana was upstairs trying to clean the room, she heard commotion coming from the garage, she heard Kelsey shouting ''KNOCK THOMAS OUT'' 

Diana ran downstairs as fast as she could, when she got to the garage, Kelsey looked at her and said ''It's too late''.

Diana says that she went into a panic and started crying as soon as she saw Jon holding a gun with Thomas's blood all over him. She says she didn't know what else to do so she continued cleaning everywhere.

Thomas's body was later found in the back of Kelsey's car on a dirt road. His autopsy revealed that he had suffered a blow to the head, there were bruises and cuts all over the 71 year old man's body and part of his ear had either been severed or ripped off. The pictures of his injuries are said to be very horrific.

(Jon, Kelsey and Diana. Picture Credit: cbslocal.com)

Kelsey, her boyfriend Jon and friend Diana, all tried to hide out in various places but eventually they were all caught and all pleaded not guilty at first but Diana ended up pleading guilty to the role she played in Thomas's death.

It also turned out that Kelsey was pregnant, she claimed that the baby was her boyfriend Jon's child. She later gave birth to a baby girl.

Kelsey's laywer says that she did not kill Thomas, he said ''How could she have lifted his body into the car, let alone beaten him to death?''.  

Kelsey's lawyer also branded Diana a ''Snitch'' and said that Diana was only telling the cops what they wanted to hear.

(Kelsey Turner: Picture Credit reviewjournal.com)

So, that's where we are with the case right now until it goes to trial and we will no doubt find out more of the facts of the case. What do you think really happened to Thomas? let me know in the comments below.


RIP Thomas Burchard 

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UPDATE (July 2021): Kelsey Turner is reported to be starting her trial this month. Kelsey, along with her partner are currently in prison claiming to be innocent of the murder of Thomas Burchard. They are both pointing the finger at Diana. Kelsey currently has an ad on a prison dating website. On her bio she claims to be in prison for a crime that she hasn't committed and hopes to find penpals who will help support her through her upcoming trial and whatever happens afterwards.

UPDATE (Nov 2022): Kelsey's former boyfriend changed his 'not guilty' plea to 'guilty' and was told that he would have to serve at least 18 years in prison. He was handed an 18 - 24 year sentence. Kelsey, is to supposed to stand trial in November 2022.

UPDATE (Dec 2022): As we've seen, this case is all over the place with things moving pretty slow in regards to what's happening with Kelsey. Right now, Kelsey's trial didn't take place in November but what we do know is that she was hoping to strike up a deal and had decided to plead guilty. Obviously her former boyfriend's decision to change his plea of 'not guilty' to 'guilty' has affected her plans so she and her lawyers have had to go back to the drawing board and work out the next step. 

UPDATE (Jan 2023):  Kelsey Turner agreed to an Alford deal meaning that she was not prepared to plead guilty but accepted the fact that the evidence presented at court would indicate that she was guilty (I know, it's a bit of a head spinner to understand). This enabled her to be sentenced to 10 years in prison with the possibility of parole in 10 years. Thomas's fiancee gave a statement before the sentence was read out and spoke of how she had suffered ill health and that her life had been turned upside down. She also spoke of how she was in fear for her life if Kelsey was ever released on parole as Kelsey had threatened her in the past. Kelsey displayed no emotion as she was quickly taken out of the courtroom. So it seems, the possibility that Kelsey Turner could be free in 10 years time could be a reality. 

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