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Cobwebs on The Mailbox: The Heartbreaking Life & Lonely Death of Hollywood Actress Yvette Vickers | Dark History


(Collage created by the blog author. Picture credits: NYTimes & Wikipedia)

*Please be aware that I will be sharing disturbing details in this post to do with death, the aftermath of death, decomposition and mental health issues. I will, as always try to be as sensitive with the details without taking away from the facts of the story. Please contact me via email if you have any questions or queries: jocaledoniankitty@gmail.com*

In April 2011, a report was going around social media that an old school Hollywood actress had been found deceased in her house in the prestigious Westwanda Drive in Beverly Hills. The death of an elderly Hollywood icon is always sad and it feels like the end of an era, the lady in question was Yvette Vickers, best known for the cult classic movie 'The Attack of The 50ft Woman'. But as the tributes began to pour in and the tweets were being typed out by lovers of classic Hollywood all over the world, heartbreaking details of Yvette's life and death began to emerge. 

Recently we have lost the incredible actor, Gene Hackman at the age of 95 after decades of being out of the spotlight and everyone was heartbroken, but again a similar situation happened where more details about his death began to pour through. We found that it wasn't just a case of an elderly retired actor who had passed away peacefully at home, we found out that Gene, his beloved wife of 35 years, Betsy and one of their three dogs had passed away. With limited details, the internet went wild with rumours, conspiracies, accusations, theories, conclusions. One minute it was speculated that it was a robbery that had gone wrong, then it was a murder committed by the illuminati, then it was a suicide pact because certain conspiracy theorists came up with the idea (without any evidence) that Gene was connected to the late and disgraced Jeffrey Epstein. I thought about Yvette the minute I heard about what happened with Gene and his wife, the way the minute details of their deaths was played out detail by detail to the world. 

Now, don't get me wrong, I can understand the flurry of crazy ideas and conclusions, as humans it's what we do, we like to get to the bottom of things and we like answers. The circumstances in which Gene, Betsy and their Dog were found, left many scratching their heads, especially as two dogs were outside alive and the front door appeared to be open. The circumstances were strange and it was the topic of non-stop conversation for days on end until a press conference addressed to the public, shared the full details surrounding the deaths. It turned out that Betsy had sadly passed away suddenly from a horrific infection known as 'Hantavirus'. Most of us have never heard of such a thing but it is caught from rats. When investigators searched the property they were able to determine that the home had signs of rat infestation. It is believed that Betsy must have touched something or an area where the rats had previously been and caught the virus from them. 

Betsy had spent days thinking that she had a bad case of the flu, she was a devoted wife and full time carer to Gene, who it emerged (as well as other health issues) was in advanced staged of Alzheimer's disease. Evidence of flu medication was found in the property and when the bodies were discovered, Betsy had been in the bathroom but Gene was in another room in the house which caused confusion and speculation to the public. It turned out that Betsy had died suddenly in the bathroom and one of the dogs was in a cage in the bathroom. Even more heartbreaking was that it is believed that Gene had been alive for about a week after his wife's death. With the advanced Alzheimer's, it's unknown if he was fully aware of what had happened or was in a state of confusion in his final days. It was all so sad and he was found to have died of natural causes but not of the Hantavirus. The dog was believed to have passed away due to the heat, hunger and dehydration. The whole story and circumstances was heartbreaking especially as Gene was such a respected and private man. He previously spoke of how he enjoyed being an actor but he wasn't built for the fame, it was never the fame that he was interested in. He said he wanted to be remembered for being a good actor, well he was all that and so much more. It's just a shame that someone who had gone to great lengths to keep his life out of the spotlight, who was very private, should have such a public death. 

Now that everyone knows the circumstances in which Gene, Betsy and their dog died, the conversation has quietened down, thank goodness and the focus has returned fully to Gene's career. Gene was a genius on the screen and watching him in action is amazing. From The Firm to Mississippi Burning, everyone has a favourite role and there may be a moment in the future where the first thought will be the tragic circumstances of his death, Betsy and their dog but that will be brief and people will remember him most for all the incredible work he gave us. Everybody loved Gene, people of all ages thought he was awesome and we are so lucky to have this incredible man's performances on film to enjoy again and again. 

So, I went down a road of talking about the late, great Gene Hackman but the reason for this will become clearer as you go through this post. Yvette didn't have the glittering career and amazing catalogue of films that Gene had but she was still beloved by many. When she was discovered dead at her secluded home and more details emerged, a dark, very sad and tragic picture began to be painted. It became clear that Yvette, who once lit up the screen with her beautiful looks, glowing smile, witty sense of humour and talent, had died alone and worst still, her body had remained undiscovered for approx 6-9 months. The exact length of time that she remained undiscovered is often badgered about because the truth is, nobody knows for sure but what we do know, from her Autopsy report (as well as the conditions in which she was found) she was mummified and in very advanced decomposition to the point that (and forgive me for the details here) she had no eyes, no brain, no internal organs and it appeared that she had either fallen or slid off of the sofa and just began to disintegrate on to the floor, maggots were present and there was not much of her left except for this gunge like substance, parts of skeleton with some soft tissue and on first discovery, it couldn't be determined if the remains on the floor belonged to a man or a woman but after some thorough investigation, they were able to establish that this was indeed, Yvette Vickers through her dental records. 

Yvette was 82 years old at the time of her death and because it is undetermined the exact date of death it is officially listed as the 27th of April 2011. On her autopsy report they believe her to have been deceased for approximately 6 months, other reports have said 1 year but what is clear is that nobody knows for sure. There was no evidence of foul play and the manner of death was determined to be down to cardiovascular disease. 

The only reason Yvette was found was because a neighbour had noticed cobwebs had formed on her mail box and became concerned. The neighbour, known as Susan Savage, managed to get into Yvette's home, which was no easy feat because Yvette had basically barricaded herself into that house. The house was up a mountain and the area was very quiet, very rarely would you hear cars go past but apparently Yvette was convinced that she was being stalked so she had bells on her gate so that if anyone tried to come to her house the bells would alert her. It was a really sad situation because as Susan looked around Yvette's home she could see the uninhabital conditions Yvette had been living in, the walls were filthy, sticky tape patched up broken windows, there was rat droppings and black mould was everywhere, there was cobwebs hanging from the ceiling and weeds growing through cracks in the walls. Susan shouted out to Yvette and got no response, she did eventually find Yvette on the second floor of the property and that must have been a truly traumatic sight for Susan to have seen. 

As well as the horrific sight of Yvette's remains on the floor, Susan noticed Brandy bottles strewn about the place, the phone was off the hook and another shocking fact is that the electricity and heating was still on. Susan turned them off and called 911 straight away who were able to be on the scene in an impressive 5 minutes. 

The reason for Yvette's neighbours to have been oblivious to the fact that Yvette was not out and about was because she was notorious for keeping herself to herself. With neighbours, they were lucky to have gotten a quick hello from her. It's not that Yvette was rude, she could be quite a charming and engaging person but for some reason she just didn't want to be too close to her neighbours so they didn't bother her. The reason her electricity was still on was because she had a direct debit set up that just ran on automatically. Susan and investigators noticed the piles of fan letters that were on the floor, Yvette had previously arranged for her mail to be held at the post office when she did go out of town. It is thought that she had planned to go somewhere and had set up her arrangement with the post office but as the months went on and a huge sack full of letters came for Yvette, the post office had no choice but to deliver them to her house. 

From what I have read of Yvette, she seemed to live a double life, one was of a hermit and the other was a bit of a socialite. She would only leave her house if she had do do something very important and would go out of town for various lengths of time. With retro fans of today, Yvette had quite a following and the movie 'Attack of The 50ft Woman' as well as 'Attack of The Giant Leeches' have gone down in cinema history as cult classics although they were considered B movies and flops. Yvette was very proud of both films and proud of all of the movies she did. She had been in the industry from the age of 15 and due to her stunning looks and charm, she often played very seductive roles. Yvette loved to dance and keep fit, she'd been born in Kansas on the 26th of August 1928, her full name was Yvette Lola Vedder and both of her parents were musicians. Her father was a jazz, saxophone player and her mother was a pianist. Yvette was a naturally talented singer and she first ended up in LA after her mother brought her out to visit her sister and fell in love with the place so decided to stay. Her father ended up coming along too and the family settled in LA whilst Yvette continued to show an artistic flare.

As well as being a talented singer and dancer she was very focused on her education with dreams and plans of becoming a writer. She quickly changed her mind and decided to study Theatre Arts to which she graduated. She got her first job on a shampoo commercial which proved to be quite a popular advert. Someone spotted her in the commercial and soon Hollywood lights beckoned and she tried to make a career as an actress. She appeared in a few things here and there, as an extra in Sunset Boulevard amongst other things, she did a lot of performances in the theatre which she was very passionate about. The two B movies she starred in were deemed to be box office failure but Yvette didn't see it like that because she starred in those movies and she was proud of that. She'd done various roles, mostly sexy and seductive but she did admit that the public would be confused by her especially those who enjoyed her theatrical performances only to see her take part in a movie that was having her play an unsavory woman. Yvette wanted to be taken seriously as an actress but she also loved the attention that she had gotten when she wore short skirts or appeared in these types of cheesy and seductive films. 

In 1990, Yvette took part in an interview with the late comedian and actor  Skip E. Lowe, where she had spoken very honestly and open about her life and career. She also talked about her love life and had mentioned some of the leading men in Hollywood that she had been in relationships with. She also spoke of the icy reception she would often receive from fellow actresses and she talked about her fondness for actress Natalie Wood (who I have previously written about. Natalie died in mysterious circumstances, you can find the post here). Natalie was described as a sweet person who was very friendly with Yvette but the majority of the time she did have to suffer a lot of hostility from women. Yvette was a beautiful woman with striking features, it wasn't a surprise when she posed for Playboy. She enjoyed photoshoots and loved the attention but this further caused confusion about her career and continuing jealousy from certain other women. 

According to her interview in 1990, she had only been married once and that union was short -lived because she was young and naive at the time. 

Other romances followed and she did have fun. She spoke of these men she had previously had relationships with and she had such great respect for them. The love of her life as she claimed, was the late American actor, Jim Hutton who sadly passed away from lung cancer at the age of just 45 in 1979. Jim's story is also one of heartbreak for he passed away just a month after finding out that he had cancer and his death came just two days after his 45th birthday. Yvette was devastated and although so many years had gone by since his death, it was clear that she had never gotten over the loss of Jim. 

Despite critics trying to be all doom and gloom about her career and the roles she had played, Yvette was very proud of all that she had achieved. Her attitude was that the two movies she had starred in, 'Attack of The 50ft Woman' and 'Attack of The Giant Leeches' may have been considered 'B movies' but she still starred in them. She was offered a role in a Paul Newman movie which she was very excited about although she was a bit disappointed to have only been offered a few small scenes, further disappointment came when it was decided that her scenes would be cut from the movie altogether. The harsh reality of Hollywood and how hard it could be. Yvette was a workaholic and was very passionate about her career and wanting to be taken seriously as actress but admitted that some of the roles she had taken in the past as well as the Playboy modelling may not have done her any favours back then. In those days to pose for Playboy and to be a woman who was very confident with her sexuality and her body would sometimes make people uncomfortable. I spoke about something similar in my Bobby Driscoll post about Hollywood expecting it's stars to be squeaky clean and any slight perceived flaw or certain type of behaviour was frowned upon. 

The very movies that were classed as 'flops' by harsh critics were the very films that endeared Yvette to her legions of fans. Many people have fond memories of watching late-night re-runs of her films and TV shows and by then, in the 1970s, they were considered classics. The popularity of those films just grew and grew to the point that Yvette's character 'Honey Parker' was seen as an icon, young girls and women would dress up as her for Halloween and the posters for her movies were still popular and considered important pieces of cinema and old Hollywood history. 

In 1990, a horror movie which Yvette appeared in, called 'Evil Spirits' was released and again this was deemed to be a flop (I actually managed to find this movie on Youtube if you're interested in watching it. You can find it here!) but Yvette enjoyed filming the movie with another actress she deeply admired, the legendary Karen Black. 

Yvette was asked if she would have done anything different in regards to her career and she said she wouldn't have, she admitted that she may have made mistakes sometimes but that she didn't regret anything. She was happy and excited about where her life and career was at that time in the 1990 interview. She was well aware of her popularity with the horror community and fans of old Hollywood. Even shortly before her death she was a regular guest at conventions where she would pose for photographs and meet fans of her movies. As mentioned previously, she had letters from fans being sent to her to the point that the post office couldn't find any space to put them all. 

When I think about the last months and days of Yvette, it's very sad and to think that she had locked herself up in this house that was once her dream home. That house was where she had done so many of her iconic photoshoots and where many memories were made. She lived there in the 1950s all the way to her death in 2010 (she is believed to have died in 2010 but her death is listed on her Autopsy report as the 27th of April 2011 - which was the day she was found). Things had gotten quiet for her career-wise but she was still thought of highly and did attend fan conventions here and there but towards the end her mental health suffered greatly. Barricading herself in, putting bells on the gate outside just in case someone tried to come to the house, keeping herself away from the neighbours, it was all so sad for such an iconic and talented person. 

(Yvette Vickers' home as it was. Picture credit: nytimes)

She never had any children and had no pets living with her so she was completely and utterly alone. For reasons unknown she had no contact with her family. There was a brother that she wasn't particularly close with who ended up taking charge of her remains after her cremation but that was it. There's no memorial stone or anything for Yvette just this sad story. 

The house was eventually sold but it was on the market for a long time as you can imagine. The address itself had a black mark against and despite the location being beautiful. Once the house was purchased it was demolished and to be honest I think that was for the best. How could anyone live in such a place, it was falling apart but also the heartbreaking memories that it was where Yvette had suffered alone for so long. The land on which the property once stood on seems to be having issues with finding a buyer at the time of writing this post (March 2025). I found the land on various sites and the address remains the same 10021 Westwanda Drive, Beverly Hills 90210. The land has been on sale now for over 7 months, nobody seems to be in a rush to buy it despite the price being $625,000. You can imagine the amount of people who would drive up there, even though the house is gone just to have a look or selfies taken.

Shortly before the house was demolished, the infamous founder of 'Find A Death.Com' and 'Dearly Departed Tours', Scott Michaels, decided to visit the property with two colleagues. The video is on Youtube and I will include it below because I did watch it and it was through Scott's video I was able to find out missing pieces of my research. The response to the video is mixed because some people believe it to be in poor taste that they went to the house, took pictures and filmed inside. Even more eyebrows were raised when Scott actually took various items that belonged to Yvette, it was deemed disrespectful and I can understand where they are coming from. When it comes to this type of situation, Scott Michaels is someone who is very passionate and fascinated by death and the deaths of famous people, I don't think it comes from a malicious place, he just wants to learn like we all do. The items that he had taken from Yvette's home (which no doubt were going to be thrown in the trash) were given pride of place in the Find A Death museum and the bells that Yvette hung on her gate were placed on the office door of Dearly Departed tours. 

It all sounds a bit morbid and disrespectful and I understand that but this is there way of paying tribute to Yvette and including her in their museum along with other iconic figures. Yvette deserves to be remembered and counted alongside the classic Hollywood starlets from back in the day. Her death was heartbreaking and was one of the worst things you could imagine happening to someone, even yourself. Through talking about these tragic events we are able to look back over the glory days of Yvette's career, the times when she was happiest and her unique beauty shining out of every photoshoot she had done. There's so many beautiful pictures of Yvette out there and in many ways, the sad ending of this story has brought her many new fans and people who may not have known about her before but want to find out what movies and shows she appeared in. 

Whatever the case, none of us will ever forget Yvette and the important part she played in Hollywood history. Some people may say she was a failed actress or that she was forgotten about but I don't agree. The fact that people are still interested and talking about 'Attack of The 50ft Woman' after decades is incredible and it has nothing to do with the way Yvette died, the movie was a cult classic before she died. Her short career in movies, if you want to call it that, was actually so iconic that she spent the last years of her life making money off of it because so many people wanted to meet her at conventions, people who hadn't even been born when that movie was first out. She gained a lot of younger fans over the years and I don't know if she responded to any of the letters she received but I'm glad that she got fan letters and knew that she was loved by people all over the world. 

On another note, Yvette was apparently working on her autobiography before her death. It would be wonderful if this was true or if anyone had the transcripts but maybe one day we will know? She led a fascinating life and had many stories to tell. When asked about the infamous casting couch, Yvette would say that she did her best to avoid that type of situation, not that there wasn't offers but she was serious about her career and wanted to be accepted, known and liked for her work. 

Yvette was a fierce animal lover and was a member of PETA and other Animal charities. She was also involved with a homeless charity. 

She seemed to be such a charming, charismatic person and even as she got older, she was still very beautiful. RIP Yvette, you will never be forgotten. 

I thank you, as always for checking out my latest post, I hope that you found it an interesting read as heartbreaking as the story is and also how disturbing it has been in parts. I know a lot of people focus on Yvette's death but in this post I have also talked about her remarkable life and hope that you have come away from this with a bit more knowledge about Yvette Vickers and will continue to check out her movies etc. I have included links below which you may find interesting if you fancy going down a Yvette Vickers rabbit hole. 

(Yvette Vickers. Picture credit: pop9)

Further Reading & Sources:

Yvette Vickers: Article | NY Times

Benedict Canyon | Wikipedia

Yvette Vickers | Wikipedia

Mummification | Science Direct

The Attack of The 50ft Woman | Wikipedia

Attack of The Giant Leeches | Imdb

Scott Michaels | Find A Death

Dearly Departed Tours

Yvette Vickers | Find A Grave

Newspapers.com (always invaluable in my research! Check out the site for access to newspaper articles from decades ago right up to present day)

The Hollywood Book of Death by James Robert Parish

World's Greatest Hollywood Scandals

Paul Newman | Wikipedia

Jim Hutton | Wikipedia

Gene Hackman | Wikipedia

My friend, Yvette Vickers, In Her Own Words by John O'Dowd

James Cagney | Wikipedia

Yvette Vickers: Article | Huffington Post

Yvette Vickers: Article | Los Angeles Daily News

Yvette Vickers: House & Autopsy Details | Scott Michaels

Yvette Vickers: 1990 TV Interview | Youtube

Skip E Lowe | Wikipedia

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The Death of Brittany Murphy | ''I am a Survivor of Simon Monjack and I believe that Brittany did not survive him.''

 (Brittany Murphy. Picture credit: rollingstone)

Brittany Murphy's sudden death in 2009 shocked and saddened everyone who ever knew her personally and for us fans of her work, it was heartbreaking. Just 32 years old with a stack of iconic movies under her belt, she wasn't just a fantastic actress, she was a talented singer, a gifted musician and she had a heart as big as Texas. 

It was so sudden when she passed away and everyone was trying to figure out exactly what had happened to her. The rumour mill was in overdrive and it still is to this very day. I received a few emails this past week in regards to my last post which focused on the death of another legendary actress, Natalie Wood and one of my readers requested that I write about Brittany. I had planned to write about her at some point but had forgotten that I had her on my list of cases to cover. Her death has always troubled me and I think that anyone who has ever taken the time to really look into the circumstances of her demise will understand where I am coming from. 

The truth is, is that Brittany Murphy should be alive today and would have been if she had been able to receive the proper treatment that she so desperately needed. 

We are all deeply saddened when we lose someone we have greatly admired for their talent, beauty and kindness towards others, even though we do not know certain celebrities personally we appreciate their gifts and the memories of how watching their movies and listening to their songs, has impacted our own lives over the years. You really do feel the sense of loss as if you have had to say a final goodbye to a dear friend. It's tragic when a terrible accident has occurred but what if the death of someone leaves a bad taste in the mouth due to unexplained circumstances, strange behaviours of others and twisted truths? 

In this post I will be talking about Brittany's death and her late husband, Simon Monjack. I will try to be as sensitive as always with the facts whilst also not shying away from the details. I don't claim to have all of the answers but I do have my own opinions just like everyone else and the truth of the matter is, is that since 2009 a lot of things about Brittany's death have continued to leave a question mark and a lot of things don't add up. I always leave it up to my readers to come to their own thoughts about particular cases and this is another situation where you may think a certain way about the events as they unfolded or you may think there is a reasonable explanation for everything. Whatever the case, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I always look forward to hearing what my readers have to say and a lot of the time they tell me things that I didn't know about a case as well as vice versa. 

So let's get into the brief background of Brittany's life. Brittany Anne Bertolotti was born on the 10th of November, 1977 in Atlanta, Georgia (USA). Her parents divorced when she was a toddler and her mother struggled financially whilst trying to raise her as a single parent in Edison, New Jersey. Money was very tight and necessities like food and clothes were often hard to come by but despite the struggles, Brittany's mother did her best and the pair were extremely close. Brittany was a fun, cheeky and bubbly child who never let financial woes dull her sparkle. From a young age she wanted to be either an actress or a singer like Madonna (who she adored). 

Brittany also had two older half-brothers and a younger half-sister. Brittany had been showing signs of her talent of acting and singing from a young age and as she reached her teens, the decision was made for her and her mother to move to Los Angeles. Brittany often spoke of how important and instrumental her mother had been to her career. She would talk in interviews about how her mother sold everything they had so that her dreams of making it as a star would come true. Brittany was always grateful to her mother and appreciated the fact that her mother had believed in her from day one. 

Fast forward to success, she had a stint on Broadway and various appearances in popular TV shows but it was her role in the iconic movie, Clueless (1995) that really put her on the map. Various star turns in movies alongside legends such as Michael Douglas and Kiefer Sutherland followed and also, my favourite role of hers was in the classic, Girl, interrupted. Brittany even appeared alongside the rapper, Eminem in the movie '8 Mile'. She also did voiceovers for TV and film. Time and time again she was demonstrating that she wasn't just a comedy actress, she could pretty much play any role that was handed to her and she did it brilliantly. 

I remember hearing her singing for the first time and I couldn't believe it, she had an incredible voice (you can hear it here on this awesome track: Faster Kill Pussycat

She had various romances but the relationship that made the most headlines at that time was her romance with Ashton Kutcher. They both met on the set of a movie and the chemistry between the pair was plain for all to see. Even the Director knew they would end up together. Sadly the relationship fizzled out but they remained very close friends right up until Brittany's untimely death. 

In 2006, Brittany bumped into a man named Simon Monjack, they'd met briefly during a photoshoot when she was a teenager. He had the unfortunate nickname around Hollywood as 'Conjack' because he was known as the man who had managed to con his way into Hollywood. His professional role was of a screenwriter and Director but his career wasn't going quite as he planned. He had a bit of a reputation and drama and rumours seemed to follow him in life (as it clearly has done, in death). He came across as a bit of an oddball and once claimed of his first meeting with the teenage Brittany as one that had made such an impact on him (he was older than Brittany, having been born in Uxbridge, England in 1970), that he watched her grow up from afar and waited for the right time to be with her. 

(Simon Monjack & Brittany Murphy. Picture credit: The Hollywood Reporter)

Some would say that is romantic, some would say creepy but nonetheless he managed to charm Brittany and the pair ended up getting married in a private Jewish ceremony in 2007. Things between them moved pretty fast from meeting again in 2006 to marriage in 2007 and then the heartbreaking death of Brittany in 2009 with his death soon to follow just months later. 

It's unclear just how much Brittany actually knew about her husband but his background of fraud, deception, so-called abandoned children, abusive and controlling relationship history, financial difficulties, false claims of credentials etc....they didn't call him 'The Man Who Conned His Way Into Hollywood' for nothing. He was obviously quite good at pulling the wool over people's eyes, after all he ended up in Hollywood married to one of the most talented and beautiful actresses of recent times. 

As time went on people close to Brittany had begun to notice that she became more and more withdrawn and the sparkle in her eyes seemed to be disappearing. People became concerned about her weight because every time they did see her she seemed to be getting thinner and thinner. Simon seemed to always be beside her and it was rare to see the two of them apart. He played the part of the adoring husband but people began to see more of a strange fixation, almost obsessive and controlling situation going on. 

Some people believed that Simon saw Brittany as his meal ticket and a way to get himself into the spotlight. Things got more sinister when Simon encouraged Brittany to fire her assistant and other members of staff which also included her make-up artist, he insisted that he would do a better job of managing her career as well as taking over as make-up artist. So he began deciding how she was going to have her hair, make-up and clothing. 

His behaviour towards Brittany was becoming more and more controlling and Brittany seemed to be caught up in what was obviously a very toxic relationship. Having worked so hard for years on her career and known in the industry as a professional as well as a well respected actress, Simon saw to it that piece by piece he would destroy what she had built. He made all of the decisions and it seemed to others who had witnessed his behaviour towards Brittany, that there was some resentment there that she was the star and he was always in her shadow. 

She was excited about working on a new movie and had prepared herself as she had always done since a teenager on the set. However, Simon appeared and made a fool of himself as he was heavily intoxicated. The whole spectacle resulted in Brittany being fired from the movie and she was devastated but couldn't confront Simon about his behaviour for whatever reason. 

Women who had been in relationships with Simon in the past described him as a 'control freak' and 'disturbing individual'. There seemed to be no end to the drama and troubles that this man had created for himself and other people in the past and now he was creating problems for Brittany. 

Everyone at the time was really concerned for Brittany and  their worst fears were realised when the news came through that Brittany had been pronounced dead, just days before Christmas (20th of December 2009) after being rushed to the famous Cedars-Sinai Hospital. Apparently she had been found unresponsive on the bathroom floor of the house she had been living in with Simon and her mother. There was utter shock around Hollywood but some people were not surprised because there had been some concerns for a while about Simon's behaviour towards Brittany and her weight continuing to plummet which was also said to have been a result of Simon's constant pressure. 

(Brittany Murphy: Article: eonline)

Brittany's cause of death was determined to be caused by a combination of pneumonia, various prescription drugs (some of which were registered to Simon), various flu medications and anemia. Her iron levels were so low that it was suspected that it could have been a contributing factor to her immune system being low. She was also underweight. Brittany had been ill with the flu a few weeks and for some reason was not able to seek medical attention, she was not taken to the Doctor or a hospital, if she had been she would have been given the proper medication and had her iron levels checked and put on a proper diet. She would be alive today without a doubt. Her death was determined to be accidental but preventable. 

It makes me angry personally because it was clear that Brittany was under Simon's control and seemed to follow everything he said from what she ate, what jobs she took on and even how she was to have her hair. He was a control freak with everything else and cut her off from proper support so is it any surprise that you would be led to believe that he was in control over what was going to happen with her health? Any decent husband would have called a Doctor straight away or took her to the hospital weeks before, why didn't he? 

Simon Monjack didn't murder Brittany but there was serious neglect there and he did not get her the proper medical attention that she needed. The other terrifying factor in all of this is that Brittany's own mother was present the whole time and even she was under Simon's spell. Simon had been able to con Brittany and her mother as well as countless others over the years. Even after Brittany's death was announced, her mother and Simon clung together for support and his comments about his wife's death was bizarre to say the least. For example, he didn't want Brittany to have an autopsy in the beginning but after eyebrows were raised he had no choice and said ''This pristine body, curvy in all the right places with skin like silk...how could I say 'cut it up', in front of her mother?''

When Brittany's friends found out about her death and saw the continuing strange behaviour of Simon Monjack, not to mention the way he had managed to manipulate Brittany's mother too, they were shocked. They claimed that they had done everything they could to (in their words) ''Stop Brittany from marrying that bottom-feeding psychopath''.

Brittany was anti-drugs and was almost paranoid when it came to taking anything such as painkillers or too much caffeine. She was always focused on her health and career and was careful not to get addicted to anything but she did have a naivety abut her and reportedly hung on every word that Simon would say. He could be charismatic at times and there would be times he would talk about things with such confidence that he was able to get around people and convince them. With the difficulties that Brittany had in the relationship with her own father who had been absent for a lot of her childhood, she was probably looking for a father-figure and in many ways, Simon may have made her feel that she was safe no matter what the real story of his actions were. 

Brittany's mother was also a victim of Simon's manipulation and control, she loved her daughter and thought she was doing the best for her but it is puzzling as to why she felt that she couldn't be strong enough to challenge Simon. Maybe she saw how Simon had persuaded Brittany to cut off her friends and associates and was scared that she would be next if she pushed too far? 

Her mother claimed that Brittany's last words to her were ''Mom, I'm dying, I love you.''. Apparently Brittany had said this to her mother when the pair were in the bathroom together. The house that all three had been staying in had previously been owned by Britney Spears and it was a beautiful house but friends claimed that the couple often had the windows closed and there would be clutter everywhere. The environment in the house itself was said to have been unhealthy with items being left all over and reports of mould. 

Now, just when you thought you were already disturbed by what you have been reading so far, wait until I tell you this. I was hoping this was just a rumour but it turned out that after Brittany's death, Simon and Brittany's mother grew a bit too close for comfort and had a relationship. The pair would sleep in the same bed together in the same house where Brittany had passed away. At this point even I don't know what to make of her mother either? Let's address another elephant in the room, they were living in Brittany's house and Brittany was keeping them both comfortable financially and it's heartbreaking to state this but it is a fact. There's no doubt Brittany's mother loved her but she was in a lot of ways a typical 'stage mom'. 

(Simon Monjack with Brittany's mother, Sharon. Picture credit: esquire)

Anybody else in their right mind (and this is my opinion) would see their daughter losing tons of weight, having health issues, a shadow of her former self, friends being cut off, unhealthy living situation and they'd step in and take her away from a man like Simon. To hell with the fame and money, what is more important? And then to hook up with the guy after your daughter's death? I cannot get my head around that, can you?

(Simon Monjack with Brittany's mother, Sharon. Picture credit: esquire)

Well, nobody was buying Simon's story and a lot of people were looking at both him and Brittany's mother with raised eyebrows. Nobody believed it was just a simple tragedy. There was definite neglect, control and abuse going on there and it looked like her mother was more concerned about losing the financial stability Brittany had given her especially as Simon had such a hold on her. 

(Simon Monjack with Brittany's mother, Sharon. Picture credit: esquire)

Another shocking twist to this awful story is that Simon Monjack himself was found dead under similar circumstances. This further set the conspiracy theory mill into more chaos. He died just months later at the age of 40 and his autopsy revealed that he also died of anemia and pneumonia with similar prescription drugs in his system. All three individuals, Simon, Brittany and her mother had all suffered from the flu in those months and were using similar medications but because of Brittany's already fragile state physically and Simon's health issues, they were not strong enough to cope with it. Rumours went around (and still continue to this day) that the couple were poisoned, murdered, made some sort of strange pact. Whatever the truth, I still believe that Simon with the help of Brittany's mother (who I have said was also a victim of Simon's manipulation so I don't believe it was intentional on her part) was a huge contributing factor in Brittany's death. Piece by piece that man had broken that beautiful woman down to the point where she wasn't strong enough to fight off a common cold and isolated her from support and denied her proper medical attention. Just a five minute phonecall to a Doctor just weeks before would have prevented it all. 

When his death was announced, people were shocked but there wasn't an outpouring of grief. Some people continued to believe that there was more to the story. Instead of the beautiful memories and tributes that Brittany had received and her continuing support for homeless charities being talked about, Simon had more dirty laundry exposed. It was bad enough all of the stuff that was already out there about him and what he had done when he was alive, but now more victims came forward and it turned out more abandoned children of his were revealed as well as survivors of his narcissistic abuse. One of his previous victims said: ''I'm a survivor of Simon Monjack and I believe that Brittany did not survive him. He was letting me be sick like that when I was pregnant with our child until my friend walked in''.

More financial drama was revealed too because he was paying off thousands of dollars to different people, had debts as long as his arm and was in all kinds of financial trouble. It's unclear where all of this money that he was using was coming from?

Brittany's mother was left the bulk of her estate so maybe that is part of the reason Simon was trying to cosy up to her when Brittany died? Another interesting fact is that Brittany left Simon out of her will, reportedly stating ''I am married to Simon Monjack, who I have intentionally left out of this will'' So Brittany made sure that Simon would not get a penny from her if she was to pass away. Was she planning on eventually leaving him and he knew it? Did he see the opportunity of her illness as a way of getting his hands on her money either by her or by manipulating her mother? With Simon Monjack, you always had to read between the lines, this guy did not do anything out of the goodness of his own heart, there was always a hidden agenda. 

I've written about various cases over the years on this blog where people have met their end by being struck by a weapon, shot or physically assaulted but there are ways to kill someone slowly, psychologically by denying them their basic needs as a form of control. Simon had a history of abusing and controlling women. His abuse of Brittany started with preying on her insecurities and controlling her career, what decent man tells a woman how to dress, wear make-up and have their hair? What decent man turns up to their partner's place of work, drunk and making a fool of himself? His previous victims had been able to escape him but he must have thought he struck gold when he set his sights on Brittany.

The death of Brittany Murphy will forever haunt me and there will never be a time where I don't see her fantastic performances on screen and not think ''What if?''. She was brilliant at everything and great with her fans, most importantly, she never forgot where she came from. We really did lose a wonderful human being and for what? 

(Brittany Murphy. Picture credit: rollingstone)

RIP Brittany, you may have physically left us in 2009 but here we are in 2023, still enjoying your amazing performances, listening to your music and sharing your story. You remain forever an icon. I hope that you are somewhere up there ''Rollin with the homies'' 

Brittany's final resting place is at Forest Lawn Memorial Cemetery in the Hollywood Hills. Simon Monjack was buried next to her. 

What are your thoughts on what happened to Brittany? Let me know in the comments below, by email: jocaledoniankitty@gmail.com or on my social media platforms

Further Reading & Sources:

Brittany Murphy: Article | Rolling Stone

Brittany Murphy: Article | Vanity Fair

Brittany Murphy: Article | People

Brittany Murphy: Article | E Online

Brittany Murphy | Wikipedia

Brittany Murphy: Movies | imdb

Brittany Murphy: Article | Mirror

Brittany Murphy: Article | ABC News

Simon Monjack | Wikipedia

Simon Monjack, Brittany Murphy: Article | USA Today

Simon Monjack: Article | The Sun

Brittany Murphy: Article | LA Times

Brittany Murphy (Documentary) | Our History

Brittany Murphy (Documentary Clip) | Inside Edition

Brittany Murphy (Documentary clip) | HBO Max

Brittany Murphy: Article | Hollywood Reporter

Sharon Murphy: Article | Heavy

Brittany Murphy: Article | E Online

Brittany Murphy: Article | Rolling Stone

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