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JonBenet Ramsey, Madeleine McCann, Azaria Chamberlain | Parents Under Suspicion

(JonBenet Ramsey, Madeleine McCann, Lindy & Azaria Chamberlain. Picture credits from left to right: nypost / mirror / womensagenda)

There are a few true crime cases that tend to haunt all of us at some time or another and this could be due to the horrific details of the case or for the simple fact that it may be (currently) unsolved. In the collage above, I'm sure you will recognise these little faces, faces that have stared out of many a magazine, newspaper, news report or the front cover of a book on a shelf at Waterstones. These three angels, JonBenet Ramsey, Madeleine McCann and Azaria Chamberlain each have a different story to tell and from different parts of the world in different circumstances. What led me to put this particular post together was the similarities in which their parents were thrust into the spotlight for very negative reasons. Each of these three cases are always bound to strike up a debate and a possible argument as to who was really responsible, but I want to talk a little bit about each of these cases (just a reminder that some of the details shared will be disturbing but as always, I will try and be as sensitive as I can be when sharing the details), so I hope you will join me in this post and share your thoughts too. 

(From top right: The Chamberlains, The McCanns & bottom picture, The Ramseys. Photo credits: news.com.au / thesun / nbcnews)

JonBenet Ramsey

I was reading a book recently about the JonBenet Ramsey murder investigation. I've lost count of exactly how many books I've read about the case, but I heard that there are actually 17 books in total (so far) that have been written about her murder. Various documentaries over the years have been made about her death and the mysteries and theories surrounding it. So you can imagine the various 'experts' who each have their own ideas and thoughts as to who is responsible for the horrific murder of the little 6 year old beauty queen. 

I've never written about the JonBenet Ramsey case before (despite requests) because it's a real rollercoaster of different opinions and nobody can be 100% sure on what the truth actually is. The book that I read recently was JonBenet: Inside the Ramsey Murder Investigation by Steve Thomas and Donald A. Davis and this is now considered to be an 'older book' despite some people claiming it to be the most compelling book on the case. The book was co written by a former detective of Boulder police in Colorado, Steve Thomas and basically points the finger at Patsy and John (JonBenet's parents). The book talks about the investigation, the failings and the evidence presented as well as information not heard in public before but the Ramsey family ended up taking the writers of this book to court and a settlement was made so that kind of puts it's relevance away to the side for me. 

It was actually after this book was published that Patsy and John Ramsey were vindicated and together with their son, Burke, completely cleared of any involvement in JonBenet's death. Sadly, Patsy wasn't able to see this day due to her untimely death from cancer. It didn't stop the 'experts' with a drive to solve the case (and make a big name for themselves in the process) putting together a TV series where the details of JonBenet's death was put under the microscope. The team of investigators came to the conclusion that it was Burke (her brother) who had murdered her and their parents had covered it up.

As you can imagine, this did not go down well with the Ramsey family and they successfully sued the makers of the series along with the investigators and not a thing was said about it again. In this case, the accusations fly about non-stop with fingers pointing everywhere. The case remains open to this day and is considered a cold case. Will it ever be solved or has the truth really died with Patsy? 

(The Ramsey family. John, Patsy, JonBenet & Burke. Photo credit: hollywoodreporter)

All we know is, is the Ramsey's lived a comfortable lifestyle, John Ramsey was a successful businessman and Patsy was a former beauty queen. They had two beautiful children together (John had 2 grown up children from his first marriage but they didn't live with him) and Patsy was determined that her beautiful, little daughter, JonBenet (6) was going to carry on her family tradition of participating in beauty pageants. Patsy was every inch the 'showbiz' mother type, JonBenet was styled to perfection and thousands of pounds were spent on her outfits, makeup and hairstyles. JonBenet was coached by her mother on how to perform and behave whilst participating in beauty pageants and although some people thought that the little girl looked cute and like a little glamorous doll, other people were completely horrified by it. A lot of us girls at a young age love to play dress up and put makeup on but with JonBenet, there was something disturbing about a young child dressing and acting like a grown woman. 

Although Patsy tried to paint the perfect image of the perfect family, all was not as it seemed in the Ramsey household. For whilst they impressed their friends with dinner parties and their beautiful decor at home, JonBenet was going through some strange behaviours such as wetting and soiling her bedsheets, she would also soil her clothes and not wipe herself properly (sorry for the graphic details), something was clearly wrong here. Lots of kids wet the bed and have accidents but with JonBenet, it was a regular thing and it drove Patsy crazy. There had been alleged incidents in the past between Burke and JonBenet too, they fought quite a lot and Burke once hit JonBenet over the face with a golf club and she had to be taken to the hospital. If JonBenet ever fell and accidentally scratched her face, Patsy would freak out because her face had to be 100% perfect for the pageant shows.

On the morning of the 26th of December 1996, Patsy had discovered that JonBenet was not in her bedroom. As she went to look for her daughter she found what looked like a handwritten note on the stairs, it contained the following text (please note that the original letter had a few spelling mistakes): 

Mr Ramsey, 

Listen carefully! We are a group of individuals that represent a small foreign fraction. We do respect your business but not the country that it serves. At this time we have your daughter in our possession. She is safe and unharmed and if you want her to see 1997, you must follow our instructions to the letter. 

You will withdraw $118,000,00 from your account. $100,000 will be in $100 bills and the remaining $18,000 in $20 bills. Make sure that you bring an adequate size attache to the bank. When you get home you will put the money in a brown paper bag. I will call you between 8 and 10 am tomorrow to instruct you on delivery . The delivery will be exhausting so I advise you to be rested . If we monitor you getting the money early, we might call you early to arrange an earlier delivery of money and hence an earlier pick-up of your daughter. 

Any deviation of my instructions will result in the immediate execution of your daughter. You will also be denied her remains for proper burial. The two gentlemen watching over your daughter do not particularly like you so I advise you not to provoke them. Speaking to anyone about your situation, such as police, F.B.I, etc will result in your daughter being beheaded. If we catch you talking to a stray dog, she dies. You will be scanned for electronic devices and if any are found, she dies. You can try to deceive us but be warned that we are familiar with law enforcement countermeasures and tactics. You stand a 99% chance of killing your daughter if you try to outsmart us. Follow our instructions and you stand a 100% chance of getting her back. 

You and your family are under constant scrutiny as well as the authorities. Don't try to grow a brain John. You are not the only fat cat around so don't think that killing will be difficult. Don't underestimate us John. Use that good southern common sense of yours. It is up to you now John!

Victory!

S.B.T.C 

(The Ramsey's former home. Photo credit: intouchweekly)

The only people that were in the house at the time along with Patsy, was John and nine year old Burke. The strange thing about the letter was that it detailed the exact amount of bonus that John was due to receive, how did these 'kidnappers' know that? The house had been searched but no trace of JonBenet was found. The cops were going on the assumption that JonBenet had indeed been kidnapped and John was prepared to pay the money stated in the ransom letter. On a second search of the house, hours later, John ended up finding JonBenet's, sadly deceased body, she'd been in the house the whole time in one of the rooms in the basement. 

For the forensic team the situation had an added nightmare because everyone thought that JonBenet had been kidnapped initially so no care was taken to preserve anything so there was fingerprints, footprints and other people's DNA everywhere. 

When John found his daughter's body, he was said to have gone into shock. JonBenet had been clearly strangled as there was a piece of nylon cord around her neck, her mouth had been duct taped closed, she'd been partially covered with a sheet and there was cord around her wrists too. John picked his daughter up and took her upstairs in a moment of sheer devastation, the crime scene had been disturbed and contaminated. 

JonBenet's autopsy revealed that her death had been the result of strangulation and blunt force trauma as if someone had hit her with a blunt object. There's been been many theories over the years that she'd been hit over the head with a torch. They couldn't rule out sexual assault even though they couldn't find any semen on or inside of the body or the surrounding area where she had been originally found. They did say that she had some sort of vaginal injury and irritation as if someone had wiped her private area with a cloth in a rough fashion. The killer had made a garrotte using the cord with a paint brush handle to strangle JonBenet. It was truly disturbing. 

As I previously mentioned, there was a TV series where a group of investigators had turned their attention to Burke and tried to paint him as the killer. This was because they'd arrived at this idea sue to the fact that JonBenet had pineapple in her stomach but Patsy and John claimed that she didn't have any pineapple in the hours before she was reported missing. However, there was a bowl in the kitchen that contained pineapple and Burke's fingerprints were on it. In that particular TV series they had a theory that Burke had been eating pineapple and that JonBenet had grabbed some of the fruit out of his bowl and he chased after her. In their idea, Burke grabbed a torch and hit his sister over the head with it to which she collapsed and sadly passed away with Patsy and John working together to set the scene and help cover up for Burke. All of this was denied by the family and the series creators were sued. 

In 2003 some DNA that had been found on JonBenet's underwear was tested and forensic investigators claimed did not match anyone in the Ramsey family and they were officially eliminated from suspicion, however there are still people who feel that the DNA evidence was minute and not enough to prove someone else was there. They claim that the DNA sample could be from a factory worker who made that particular piece of clothing. 

Various known child sex offenders have been questioned, some have claimed to be involved but then been found out to just be fantasists looking for attention and just sick perverts basically. Some known paedophiles that lived near to that area have also been put on the list of possible suspects but nobody knows for sure. 

So this case remains open and the theories and discussion remain. Did the truth die with Patsy? John is in his 70s now and had remarried, Burke is all grown up and had a battle on his hands in recent years to clear his name. It's a heartbreaking case and one wonders if it will ever be solved. 

(JonBenet Ramsey. Photo credit: edition.cnn)

Madeleine McCann 

If you ever want to start up a heated argument online (I wouldn't advise) all you have to do is mention the name 'Madeleine McCann' cause unfortunately, this beautiful little girl has become somewhat a symbol of class war. Along with the JonBenet Ramsey case, this story comes with a lot of theories but with more of an intensity, more of a sheer anger towards Madeleine's parents. Back in 2007, Kate and Gerry McCann, who were medical professionals (Kate was a Doctor and Gerry was a successful and popular cardiologist) decided to take their 3 children (Madeleine was aged 3 at the time and her little brother and sister were aged just 2) to the beautiful town of Praia da Luz in Portugal for a holiday. Their friends were also going for a break and it was a chance for the adults to relax and for the kids to have some fun in the sun. 

What was supposed to be a dream holiday and a get-away-from it all sort of affair, soon turned out to be a real-life nightmare that had never left the UK's consciousness. Even I remember where I was when the news of this case first broke on morning TV. It was initially reported as a possible child abduction and there was instant sympathy and support for Kate and Gerry McCann. But as time went on and more details began to emerge, the public sympathy soon wore thin. It turned out that Kate and Gerry had a habit of leaving their 3 young children alone in their holiday home in the evenings so that they could go and have dinner and drinks with their friends. This left a bad taste in everyone's mouths because this was a foreign country that they were in, their children were far too young to be unsupervised and it all seemed so very careless on their part.

(Madeleine McCann. Photo credit: independent)

I know everyone's different but I'm of the opinion (and don't shoot the boots off of me) that kids as young as 2 and 3 have no business going on holiday to places like Portugal for a holiday. That's far too young in my book, the potential for something sinister happening is every high and your're miles and miles away from home too. In this case, Kate and Gerry had been having their cake and eating it, leaving the children on their own whilst they sipped cocktails. They would go once or twice to check if the children were ok but still, it was a huge risk for them to take. 

Well, you no doubt know the story but Madeleine 'vanished' into thin air and all hell broke loose and I'm sitting here at my laptop in 2023 and typing that she had never been found. despite the endless searches, campaigns and millions of pounds raised and spend, there is no trace of Madeleine McCann. 

Kate and Gerry have a lot of eyes on them as suspects, a lot of people believe them to be guilty or that they know something. Others believe that the couple are innocent and just made a terrible mistake. Some people believe that they should be in prison and charged with neglect. The reason I mentioned 'class' earlier is because of the way that his case has been handled. As you know, we have thousands of children missing and they have not had this level of public attention or government assistance and it's caused a bit of an uproar. Gerry and Kate are quite privileged, they're middle class and work as medical professionals so they are treated a different away as opposed to a low income couple who live on a council estate. This is the feeling of most people in the UK. 

(Kate & Gerry McCann. Photo credit: thesun)

As I'm talking about this case in this post, it has been announced that the UK government plans to spend another few hundred thousand pounds on the 'search' for Madeleine. It's well known that investigators have been going out to Portugal on a regular basis, staying in fancy hotels and getting nowhere near to an answer. Seems to be that some people are taking advantage of the situation. A reported £13 million pounds has been spent so far on this case and as I said before, this kind of attention and funding has never been given to any other missing persons case so it has people up in arms. Everyone wants Madeleine found but we want attention and help on other missing children cases too. Sadly, as more time goes on, the hopes of finding Madeleine get slimmer and slimmer. 

There have been many theories attached to the case including a Polish woman who has been going on every TV show known to man right now, claiming to be Madeleine - I'll keep you posted about that one!

A lot of things about this case do not sit right with me. The fact that Kate and Gerry would administer 'medicines' to their children to 'help them sleep', the fact that they were happy to leave their kids alone, that Kate washed Madeleine's beloved 'Cuddle Cat' cuddly toy which raised a few eyebrows. If your child had gone missing and all you had left was their favourite blanket or cuddly toy, you wouldn't wash it, would you? because their scent would still be on those items. You would keep whatever you could close to you that belonged to them. This upset people, especially Mothers who would never dream of doing that. Quite a lot of strange behaviour from the pair of them over the years and they've never been brought to task for neglecting their children. 

(The luxury apartments in Praia da Luz. Photo credit: theguardian)

There is a lot of people out there who are heavily invested in this case, just general members of the public who have twitter accounts and web pages dedicated to Madeleine and they believe Kate and Gerry to be guilty. A few years ago a lady had a Twitter account completely dedicated to the McCanns and she spent morning, noon and night tweeting about them and saying abusive things. Her Twitter account ended up on the news and in the newspapers. This woman was tracked down by a Sky News reporter and put on blast on TV. She just got out of her car and suddenly there was a TV camera in her face and a reporter asking her why she was saying horrible things about the McCanns. The whole thing was very uncomfortable and awkward and I don't know what Sky News was hoping to achieve but this woman was one of thousands who'd be vocal about the McCanns. 

The situation with this lady took even more of a dark turn because, after the humiliation of being plastered all over Sky News for everyone to see, she booked herself into a hotel and took her own life.

It was clear that this lady had some personal problems and an obsession with the case but she had a right to an opinion as everyone else did. Out of everyone she was selected to put on blast and it was felt by many that it wasn't fair. A lot of people still feel so strongly about the Madeleine McCann case over here in the UK. 

(Information poster for Madeleine McCann: Check out the official Madeleine McCann website: findmadeleine.com)

Azaria Chamberlain

Now, for a different turn in this post (which is proving to be quite long....I hope you have a cup of tea), in this case which you night be scratching your head about when you see the name 'Azaria Chamberlain', let me tell you the sentence that will spark the memory for you...''A Dingo ate my baby''. It's not the nicest of things to say but whenever this particular case is mentioned, this sentence will always be mentioned. I am of course talking about the infamous story of Lindy and Michael Chamberlain and the heartbreaking disappearance of their beautiful baby girl, Azaria who was only nine weeks old. 

(Michael & Lindy Chamberlain. Photo credit: news.com.au)

This story was so shocking and haunting that a movie starring Meryl Street and Sam Niell was made and it was one of the most incredible performances of Meryl Streep's career. Meryl played the role of Lindy, Azaria's mother. The movie is called 'A Cry In The Dark'. In August of 1980, Lindy and her husband Michael took a camping trip with their two sons & baby daughter Azaria to the beautiful and iconic, Ayers Rock in Australia. What was supposed to be quality time with the family, ended up with Lindy and Michael frantically searching for their baby girl in the darkness. 

(Ayers Rock aka Uluru. Photo credit: wikipedia)

The family had tents which they thought were secure and there was various people camping that night so Lindy stepped away for a few seconds from the tent whilst Azaria was sleeping and in a flash, the baby had gone. It's hard to imagine how that must have felt, that heart-stopping moment but it was captured very well in the movie (A Cry In The Dark). Everyone was searching the vast area with flashlights but Azaria was gone and nobody knew where. There had been Dingos spotted around the camp previously. A Dingo is an Australian wild dog which lives around Ayers Rock and it was suspected that one of the dogs had managed to get into the tent and grab the baby. 

When Lindy tried to explain this to the cops and the media, that a Dingo had taken her baby, she was made a laughing stock and the eyes of suspicion fell on to her and Michael. They were accused of killing Azaria and all sorts of wild stories went around about them. There was even a rumour that they killed Azaria as part of a occult sacrifice. The Chamberlain's were put through hell and their names were basically mud in Australia and the story reached other parts of the world too. 

Things just got even more horrendous when Lindy was found guilty of murdering Azaria even though she was innocent. She spent three years in prison where people continued to taunt her and brand her a baby killer. Michael also spent some time behind bars as he was classed as an accessory to murder. Lindy tried to stay strong throughout the whole ordeal and was determined to not let the media or negative members of the public get to her so she put up a front, Lindy's strong demeanour was seen as cold and in the minds of some of the public, it made her appear to be cold-hearted and guilty. 

(Lindy & Azaria Chamberlain posing on Ayers Rock. Photo credit: abc.net.au)

Lindy was going to be spending the rest of her life in prison for something she didn't do, all appeals were rejected and there was no hope. Then suddenly, in 1986, a piece of clothing that belonged to Azaria had been found near to where a group of Dingos inhabited, Lindy was released from prison and together with Michael they continued to fight and prove their innocence. 

The investigation into Azaria's disappearance & possible death, continued and finally all charges and accusations against Lindy and Michael were dropped in 1988, however, the battle wasn't over. Various inquests were held and it was finally decided that, after a thorough investigation that Azaria was most likely to have been taken by a Dingo. All of the evidence that they did have, pointed to that conclusion and Lindy was awarded compensation for being falsely accused and imprisoned. 

(Meryl Streep gave a phenomenal performance as Lindy Chamberlain in the movie 'A Cry In The Dark' which was based on the Chamberlain case. Photo credit: Amazon)

Lindy and Michael had a huge outpouring of support from the public and a lot of people were deeply sorry for judging them from the beginning. It was very much a case of trial by media and it just goes to show that sometimes the people you suspect, despite their strange or uncommon behaviour, can be innocent at times. It's scary to think that Lindy could have spend her life in prison, 3 years was bad enough and this couple were completely hated by the press and the public. If the McCann's think they have it bad, it's nothing compared to what Lindy and Michael experienced in the 1980s. 

It took a long time of fighting to clear their name but they got there in the end. Sadly, Michael passed away from leukemia in 2017. Lindy remarried in 1992 and is now 75 years old, she is seen as an inspiration to many. Interestingly, some of the evidence from that horrible night as well as some items from Lindy's prison days, has been placed as an exhibition in the National Museum of Australia. 

(Lindy Chamberlain in recent times. Photo credit: csmonitor)


Further Reading & Sources:

- Jonbenet: Inside the Ramsey Murder Investigation by Steve Thomas & Don Davis

- Who Killed JonBenet Ramsey? by Cyril H Wecht & Charles Bosworth Jr

- Unsolved: The JonBenet Ramsey Murder: 25 Years Later by Paula Woodward

- Killing JonBenet Ramsey by Dylan Howard

- Killing of JonBenet Ramsey | Wikipedia

- JonBenet Ramsey: Article | Daily Star

- JonBenet Ramsey: Article | Fox News

- JonBenet Ramsey: Article | The Independent

- JonBenet Ramsey Murder Case: Article | The Denver Post

- The Ramsey Family: Article | News Nation

- JonBenet Ramsey: Article | Daily Mail

- JonBenet Ramsey Case: Timeline | Court TV

- JonBenet Ramsey: Article | Denver Gazette

- JonBenet Ramsey's Brother Breaks Silence 20 Years After Her Murder

- The breakthrough new DNA evidence that could find JonBenét Ramsey's killer | 60 Minutes Australia

- JonBenét Ramsey's Father Speaks to Court TV

- Burke Ramsey compilation of all police Interviews available of Burke when he was 9 and 11.

- Revisiting JonBenet Ramsey Murder Case, and How New DNA Tech Can Help, with Her Father John Ramsey

- 20/20 John and Patsy Ramsey Interview with Barbara Walters (March 17, 2000) FULL EPISODE

- 9NEWS interviews John and Patsy Ramsey

- Find Madeleine (Official Website)

- Madeleine McCann: News & Updates | Daily Mail

- Madeleine McCann: News & Updates | Daily Record

- Madeleine McCann: News & Updates | The Independent

- Madeleine McCann: News & Updates | Telegraph

- Madeleine McCann: News & Updates | Metro

-  “I Believe I am Madeleine McCann” | Dr Phil Show

- Kate McCann: I Would Never Have Taken A Risk

- Searching for Madeleine: A Sky News documentary on the McCann investigation

- The hunt for Madeleine McCann 15 years on

- What happened to Madeleine McCann? Her parents speak and the bungled investigation | 7NEWS Spotlight

- Disappearance of Madeleine McCann | Wikipedia

- Death of Azaria Chamberlain | Wikipedia

- Lindy Chamberlain: Article | Daily Mail

- Azaria Chamberlain Inquest | National Museum of Australia

- Azaria Chamberlain: Biography | Australian Dictionary of Biography

- Lindy Chamberlain: Article | The Guardian

- Michael Chamberlain | Wikipedia

- Lindy Chamberlain - Creighton | Wikipedia

- Lindy Chamberlain - Creighton | Lindy's Official Website

- Lindy Chamberlain | The Forensics Library

- Evil Angels by John Bryson

- The Lindy Tapes: the mystery behind the famous quote: "A dingo’s got my baby" | 7NEWS Spotlight

- The Baby Girl Taken by a Dingo: The tragic saga of Azaria Chamberlain | 60 Minutes Australia

- Lindy Chamberlain On Forgiveness | Studio 10

- A Cry In The Dark aka Evil Angels: Movie based on the Chamberlain case


RIP little angels, JonBenet, Madeleine, Azaria.

RIP Patsy & Michael. 


Three very different cases where suspicion fell automatically on to the parents. We know that Lindy and Michael Chamberlain were proven innocent after years of hell and constant accusations but what is he truth concerning the Ramseys and the McCanns, will we ever truly know?

I hope that you found this post interesting and informative, maybe it sparked up some thoughts for you? It would be interesting to hear your thoughts on each of these cases, either here in the comments section below, or feel free to email me in private (jocaledoniankitty@gmail.com) if there's anything you would like to share or say. 

I will be taking a little break for the Easter holidays. I'll also be attending (& meeting - eeeeek!) one of Professor David Wilson's shows, who, as you know, is one of the UK's leading Criminologists so I might do a post on that too. I will be back after the short Easter break with more content, so stay tuned for that.

I hope you have a wonderful Easter (if you celebrate the holiday) or a wonderful week in general. I will be stuffing my face with Lindt and Cadbury's chocolate whilst giving thanks too of course and appreciating the true meaning of everything. 

Take care & I will see you (hopefully) on my socials x

Abused Victims Who'd Had Enough? or Cold-Bloodied Killers Motivated By Money? | Erik & Lyle Menendez | UPDATES | Graphic Content

 (From left to right; The Menendez Family. Lyle, Kitty, Jose & Erik. Picture credit: tvfanatic)

So, as clearly stated in the title of this post, we have come to the end of my Partners In Crime series in this seventh and final instalment and what better way to end this series than with a case that sent shockwaves all over the world. I think just about everyone knows about the Menendez family, to say the case has been highly publicised is an understatement. So many books, TV movies, documentaries and comedy spoofs (yes, comedy spoofs) have been written and created about this fascinating family. Why do they fascinate us and continue to fascinate us? Well, they looked like they had it all, the picture perfect family, the beautiful mansion in Beverly Hills, staying in a location that was once the neighbourhood of the likes of Michael Jackson and Elton John, the vast amount of money, the lifestyle, the talent, the showbiz connections....quite simply, to the onlooker, they had it all......or did they?

My first introduction to this case was many moons ago when my mum was watching the TV movie: Honor Thy Father & Mother: The Menendez Killings, I was just a child but vaguely remember a storyline of two young boys who had a tyrant for a father and ended up killing their parents before going on a massive spending spree with their deceased parents money. I think that's the understanding of most people when they think of this case and it was mine over the years because I didn't really focus that much on it. I'd always see the Menendez case pop up quite a lot because there always seemed to be another movie or documentary based on the case.

(Jose Menendez with his sons, Erik & Lyle. This photo was quite controversial due to where Jose's hand is placed and the allegations that the boys had shared about their father. Picture credit: abcnews)

So I decided that this past week I would really delve into the whole story and what really happened. I was shocked at a lot of the things I heard from the courtroom tapes. I sat through and watched endless hours of the trial that was broadcast on Court TV back in 1993, the testimonies, the cross-examinations, the closing arguments etc as well as the TV interview with Barbara Walters and I've read endless books. There was a lot to get through but I learned a lot about this case that I never knew before. 

In this post, I will be sharing some very graphic details to do with the murders as well as disturbing details to do with child sex abuse. I will try my best to be as sensitive as I can whilst stating the details. Watching and hearing the boys (I keep calling them boys) talk about what they allegedly endured at the hands of their parents was quite difficult to stomach a lot of the time and what was said and done by the pair, before, during and after the murder of their parents is still something that is very much up for discussion and debate. There's people who believe them and there's people who don't. Everyone seems to have a strong opinion on this case and I no doubt will have some smart-ass (it usually happens on Twitter) comment that someone has  seen one TV movie and therefore know everything there is to know about the case and have fully made their minds up about the Menendez brothers. 

I always say to be aware of TV movies based on real murder cases because a lot of the time, dates and times are changed, names are changed, locations are changed and some scenes are created for dramatic affect. It's very rare that you are going to get the real facts from a glossy TV movie. I highly recommend books, the trial footage (if it's available) and any interviews with the actual witnesses, family members or perpetrators themselves, to get an idea of the real story. 

(Erik and Lyle Menendez. Picture credit: vanityfair)

As I always do, I approached my research into this case as if I had never known anything about it before and I started off with the book The Menendez Murders: The Shocking Untold Story of The Menendez Family & The Killings That Stunned A Nation by Robert Rand. This was a real eye-opener of a book and very graphic, it didn't hold back on the details and afterwards when I watched the 1993 trial I heard all of the horrendous details repeated again from the book, it's a very harrowing and interesting read for anyone who is wanting to know a more in-depth, no holds barred, account of the case. 

So with all that being said, let's get into the case. Jose Menendez was quite the success story having come from humble beginnings in Cuba, his background was one of struggle and allegedly quite an abusive one too. He reportedly suffered sexual abuse as a child by a female family member and it seemed to be a common thing in that family with relatives turning a blind eye. Despite the difficulties he faced, he was quite an intelligent child who was very much a dreamer, someone who wanted more out of life, he wasn't one for settling with his lot, he always wanted more and this was (at times) an admirable trait because he became a very successful man but in regards to others, he would often place unrealistic and unnecessary pressure and expectations. Some people would find him very intimidating and hard to get along with as he came across as quite a strong minded, forceful character and this was demonstrated from a young age. 

He had goals to be a professional swimmer and he was quite successful and earned a scholarship at a college. He ended up emigrating to America after the Cuban Revolution during the 1950s and took various jobs whilst studying at university where he met his future wife Mary (who was known as Kitty). Kitty was a beautiful young woman who was very intelligent herself, she'd partaken in beauty pageants in the past and had also done some teaching. She had dreams of becoming an actress and the pair seemed to be something of a romantic love story with the handsome young ambitious Cuban man coming all the way to America and sweeping this all American beauty queen off of her feet. They were soon married and Jose never stopped working towards his dreams. He turned from the swimming to working in the entertainment industry and had managed to work himself all the way to the top quite literally through hard work, grit and determination.

So with all that success in his career, the couple were able to enjoy the fruits of all of Jose's labours and began to live a more comfortable lifestyle. The happy couple welcomed two sons, Joseph Lyle Menendez (Lyle) was born first on the 10th of January 1968 and his brother Erik Galen Menendez was born not that long after in 1970. They were almost like twins, not in looks or personality but they were close. 

In the early years of Lyle's life, everything seemed to be great within the family and with his relationship with his father, however, when he turned 6 years old, things took a more confusing and disturbing turn. Jose began behaving quite inappropriately with his young son. Jose began touching him in private and forcing Lyle to perform sex acts on him and he would do the same. This was done in private away from Kitty and Erik and Jose would tell Lyle that it was their secret and that it was natural. Jose would say that it was a form of father and son bonding and that the Greeks would partake in mutual masturbation before going into battle. Jose would force Lyle to read passages from historical books which supposedly detailed this 'ritual'. He said that it was his role as a father to teach his son how to (as he put it) 'relax' and 'get rid of 'tension'. He told Lyle that he would do the same thing with his child when he became a father in the future. 

Lyle was very confused and loved his father but was also very scared of him and wanted his father's approval in everything. The sexual abuse that Lyle endured was reportedly from the ages of 6 to 8 and it stopped abruptly to Lyle's relief. However, Jose seemed to have turned his attention to Erik and Erik claims that his experience of sexual abuse from his father also started at the age of 6. As I mentioned before, the boys had very different personalities as you would expect but Lyle seemed to be a bit tougher than Erik. Lyle seemed to be a bit more headstrong like Jose whereas Erik cut quite a sensitive figure and would often be very emotional and cry which very much irritated Jose. Jose hated seeing weakness, he didn't have much of a bedside manner and wanted to toughen the boys up. 

As Lyle got older he became more confident and a bit of a rebel who had quite a few of his father's traits and he seemed to be quite bright and good at sports which Jose was thrilled with in the beginning. Jose saw a lot of himself in Lyle and there was an element of favouritism with Jose and the boys. Lyle got things a bit more easier than Erik but Kitty was reportedly always quite distant with the boys, especially Lyle. Kitty began to say things to Lyle which were quite upsetting such as that he ruined her life when he was born, that all of her dreams were ruined when she found out that she was pregnant with him. Depending on her moodswings, she would often blame both of the boys for what she said was not being able to live her life the way she always wanted to live it. Despite living the high life, she apparently resented the boys and didn't seem to be interested in being a mother. Looking after the boys didn't seem to be on her high list of priorities and she wasn't affectionate, neither was Jose who didn't believe in praising people because he said that it stopped people from working harder. 

As I mentioned previously, Lyle's sexual abuse ceased at the age of 8 but Jose's horrific assaults on Erik would continue on for a shocking 12 years. The abuse went from inappropriate touching to the most horrendous things you could imagine. Erik was very detailed and graphic when sharing the details of what he claims had happened with his father and it was nightmarish. Erik was forced to swallow his father's semen, objects were forced into his backside, he would be forced to perform sexual acts on his father whilst Jose would put pins in his legs and body. Erik would cry out in pain and this just further angered Jose and he would say ''Why can't you just be like your brother, you will get used to it.''.

Lyle did try and tell a female relative about the sexual abuse that he suffered in the past and this same relative told Kitty who refused to believe it and branded Lyle a liar and that was the last that was said on the matter. Later on during the 1993 trial, Lyle confessed that during his abuse he remembered taking Erik to some woods and inappropriately touching him. Lyle tearfully apologised to his brother in the courtroom.

This horrible nightmare would be a regular occurrence and it would be even worse if Erik failed at something or got a bad grade. Lyle and Erik were being pressured to take part in sports, particularly tennis. Lyle seemed to be quite good but Erik needed a bit more practice. The boys would be forced to take part in gruelling practice sessions which would often be up to 45 hours per week and this was not counting school. Everything they did was critiqued by Jose and if they took part in a tennis tournament and lost a match, Jose would sit them down and go through the match step by step. Everything would be scrutinised from their performance right down to what they had eaten. The boys food and drink intake was recorded because Jose believed that whatever they ate could affect their performance. There was no room for failure in Jose's book. Jose allegedly took nude photographs of the boys which were shown at the trial. Erik and Lyle claimed that their father often took pictures of them naked. 

The boys went through reportedly 50 tennis coaches because Jose had a habit of getting rid of people that he felt were getting too close to the boys. He didn't want Erik and Lyle to have a friendly relationship with anyone because he believed that they should see everyone as a potential competitor. He didn't believe in friendships because he felt that this would weaken their resolve and make them fail at whatever task or competition they participated in. 

During the years of sexual abuse, Kitty would often come to Erik's room to (he claimed) 'examine' him. Because of the injuries that would be inflicted by Jose, Erik had some blisters on his private area. Kitty would ask him to sit naked on the edge of the bed whilst she touched and apparently squeezed these blisters. There was no discussion and Erik didn't say anything to his mother about how the blisters got there but he was very confused as to why she was doing that and her behaviour was very strange. 

The relationship between Erik and Lyle wasn't just difficult with their father, there non-existent bond with their mother was very difficult too. To the outside world, Jose and Kitty would portray their family as this close-knit, perfect unit but in reality it was more like a warzone. Kitty was having all sorts of personal problems, she was obsessed with her appearance and scared of looking older. She would go on extreme diets and became obsessed with having facial treatments done. She was going through moodswings and drinking heavily. All of this was further exacerbated when she found out that Jose had been having a number of affairs. 

Lyle was going from strength to strength with his tennis career and went on to win the No 1 position for the States Tennis Association, Erik was at number 5 but this still did not satisfy Jose who was annoyed that his family had not been voted to win the Family of The Year award. He felt that if Erik had done better than they would have won. Even though Lyle was in No 1 position, with Jose, there was always a criticism to be had and his attitude was that Lyle was No 1 in the States Tennis Association but it wasn't worldwide so therefore it still wasn't good enough. Previous tennis coaches later commented that Jose was very harsh on the boys and would work them to the bone during practice. 

Erik was still very sensitive as the years went on and Kitty and Jose would force Erik to participate in various tasks in an effort to toughen him up. Jose once told him: ''You are the biggest sissy I have ever known in my life, I'm ashamed that you are my son.''

As Erik grew older the sexual abuse got worse, he now had names for each type of abuse his father inflicted on him, he called them:

Knees

Nice sex

Rough sex

Just sex

The type of abuse that Erik would be forced to endure, depended on what mood Jose was in. The abuse had reached the point where Jose was now sodomising his son, according to Erik's testimony. 

Kitty began to taunt Erik about him not having a girlfriend, she would ask him if he was homosexual to which he replied that he wasn't. Both Kitty and Jose were fiercely homophobic and would make distasteful remarks. Erik would think to himself that his father was a hypocrite because of how he was treating him and abusing him. 

Things were going from bad to worse with the family when Erik and Lyle got involved in petty crimes. They both began stealing people's property out of their homes and Jose found out about it. Jose did what he could to fix the situation with the victims involved and gave them their belongings back as well as a large sum of money for any items not returned. Jose was highly embarrassed by this and told a friend that he was going to cut Lyle and Erik out of his will. Jose ordered the boys to attend appointments with a psychiatrist called Dr. Jerome Oziel. 

The marriage between Kitty and Jose was in turmoil on one hand but Jose's success was blossoming on the other, he found himself as the head of RCA Records and had worked with some of the most iconic artists of the 1980s. When it came to money, they were rolling it, money was no object for the Menendez family but it was all under Jose's control. They moved about a bit but always stayed in the most luxurious of places. Jose, not being content being a huge success in the entertainment industry he decided he wanted to move into films too on some capacity but not as an actor. Kitty still had her dreams of becoming an actress or an anchor.

Whilst the family were living in this beautiful big mansion in Beverly Hills, Kitty was still suffering with mental health problems, she was swallowing dozens of pills every day. Jose was still carrying on with other women and Kitty's relationship with her sons was still distant and tense. 

Erik and Lyle grew tired of the fact that Kitty (reportedly) would always stand by and do nothing whilst Jose would shout at them. There was animosity because of her attitude towards the revelation that Lyle had been abused years before but she just cast that aside. The boys couldn't understand why she never attempted to help them or try and keep them safe from Jose. There was more drama when Jose and Kitty would argue and threaten divorce. On one occasion Jose had been putting pressure on Erik during tennis practice and not thinking, Erik shouted ''Alright, Alright'' to which Jose threw him against a glass panel, he then threw him against it again and he fell threw it. Kitty had been watching the whole incident and didn't do a thing to stop it. 

There's people who will say that Kitty and Jose were some of the nicest people you could meet and that they worshipped their two sons, In fact it was reportedly Erik and Lyle who would be very rude to their parents and would be overheard shouting at Kitty and Jose on a number of occasions. 

Things were are brewing point with the family despite living at the beautiful 722 North Elm Drive mansion, Erik wanted to escape and go to university, he had his heart set on it and saw it as a way to get away from the sexual abuse, Jose had other ideas. Jose made it clear that Erik could attend this university but he would still have to come home and stay at the house. To Erik, this meant that his father was basically saying that the abuse was going to continue. Jose also apparently said that both Erik and Lyle would have to continue living by his rules, no matter where they were staying. Jose spelled it out to the boys of what he had planned for their futures, he was going to decide what career they would have and who they would be able to marry. 

Erik was furious and tried to talk to his mother but was greeted with a hostile reception. Erik claimed that Kitty blurted out that she had always known about the sexual abuse and when Erik (who was horrified and in shock) asked her why she didn't help him, she responded ''Why should I help you? Nobody has ever helped me in my life.''

Erik was devastated that Kitty had known about his sexual abuse all of this time and had done nothing to help him. He was very emotional about it. Erik wasn't the only one on the receiving end of Kitty's cold and distant demeanour, Lyle was to find himself in tears over something that had been bothering him for years that Kitty enjoyed tormenting him about and that was his hair. Lyle had suffered from hair loss from his early teens and it had a profound affect on his confidence. Jose and Kitty were very concerned about it but nobody knows if their 'concern' was due to Lyle's state of mind or because Lyle's hair loss wouldn't have fitted in with the perfect image they were trying to portray to the outside world. Whatever the reason, Lyle was given a professional hair piece which was securely glued to his scalp. It was made from real hair and looked natural. The specialist glue enabled him to go swimming, be outside in all kinds of weather, showers etc and it not come off or cause any sort of potential embarrassment. These days, hair pieces and extensions are all the rage but back then it was sort of a hush-hush thing, especially if you were a man. 

Erik claimed that he never knew that Lyle wore a hair piece, not that it was a big deal to him. He knew that Lyle had suffered from hair loss but thought that he'd had some sort of surgery because he'd been swimming with him and never saw the hair come off, he thought it was natural. Erik was surprised to hear some commotion and overheard Lyle shouting ''Please, Mom I need it.''  The next minute, Kitty comes storming out of the room and has Lyle's hair piece in her hand which she threw back at him before going to her bedroom. Lyle was in tears and seemed to be humiliated. His scalp wasn't bleeding but it was red from where Kitty had harshly ripped off the hair piece, now whether this incident actually occurred, we only have Erik and Lyle's word on this but one thing's for sure, there was something very wrong with that relationship (or should I say lack of) that those boys had with their mother. 

Lyle ran off to the guest house, Erik followed to see if he was ok. Lyle went to the bathroom and tried to sort out his hair piece. Erik told him that it didn't matter about his hair and that he still loved him. With emotions running high, Erik opened his heart to Lyle and told him about the abuse at the hands of their father. Lyle was upset about what Erik told him and claimed that he never knew. They both went back and forth in conversation about their horrible experiences with Jose and they wanted to put a stop to it. Lyle was determined and wanted to confront Jose. Some time later this actually happened but he was met with the response ''I do what I want with my family.''

It was clear what the situation was going to be for Lyle and Erik, they had heard they were going to be cut out of their father's will, Jose made it clear that they were going to live by his rules no matter where they were and Erik was terrified because Jose had threatened him in the past that if he told anyone about the sexual abuse that he would not only kill him but he'd kill the person he told, so he thought (or he claims to have thought) that it was only a matter of time before his parents got rid of both himself and Lyle. 

They wanted to run away but decided against the idea because they knew with Jose's connections and money, he would find them. Erik had attempted to run away in the past when he was a child but Jose found him and threatened to kill him if he ever tried anything like that again. They were stuck and didn't know what to do. They later claimed that they were terrified because they knew their parents had guns in the house, Kitty had bought one the year before too. When Erik asked her why she bought it she responded that she planned to kill someone but he didn't ask who it was. This puzzled the courtroom at his trial in 1993 and he explained that you never questioned his parents on anything and he figured it had something to do with someone his father was having an affair with because his mother was completely miserable at this point. 

Kitty was all over the place emotionally and threatened to kill the boys and Jose with poison. It got to the point where Jose started taking Erik and Lyle out for dinner cause they couldn't trust what Kitty was going to do next. 

So the lead up to that horrific and infamous night of the 20th of August 1989, if we are to believe what Erik and Lyle have been saying all of these years, the Menendez family were teetering on the brink and it was all going to come crashing down around them. Depending on what you believe to have happened that horrible night, the story we know is this...

(The Menendez Home where the shocking murders took place. Picture credit: townandcountrymag)

Erik arrived home around 9:30pm (he claims) and was in fear that his father was going to come to his bedroom to abuse him. According to the evidence, Erik burst into the family room where his parents were watching TV on the sofa (Erik claimed that they were standing) and he opened fire. Lyle was behind him, holding a fully loaded gun and they both shot at their parents. At the trial, excuses were made about forgetting details, not being able to remember anything etc but it was clear that they knew what they were doing as only two shots missed as they entered the French doors behind their parents. Jose had been shot 6 times and in one of those shots, Lyle had chillingly walked up behind him and shot him in the back of the head at point blank range. 

As if the horror couldn't get any worse, they had shot Kitty 10 times, remarkably, she was still alive and had ended up on the floor between the sofa and the coffee table. Lyle later drew gasps from people in the courtroom at the trial because he'd described his mother as 'sneaking' around the coffee table so he knew she was still alive. Kitty had been moaning from what her two sons had done to her, covered in open wounds and blood. It was horrific as anyone who has had the unfortunate experience of viewing the crime scene pictures will know.  They both went outside, Erik couldn't deal with his mother's moans of pain and they went to the car where he gave Lyle a cartridge. Coldly and calmly, Lyle walked back into the room and shot his mother in the face. 

Without missing a beat, they came up with the idea of collecting all of the shotgun shells in the room just incase they happened to have their fingerprints on them. So they walked back into that room which was covered in blood, their parents completely slaughtered and laying there, Erik later said they looked like 'wax figures'. They managed to collect every single shell and they both got in Erik's car with the guns and shells. They both realised that they had spots of blood on their clothes. They dumped the shells and got changed at a gas station and went to a movie theatre in an attempt to get some tickets for an alibi, that didn't go to plan and they ended up going back to the house to call the police and put on the performance of a lifetime, screaming and yelling ''somebody killed my parents.''(The Menendez crime scene. picture credit: abcnews)

From the beginning of the investigation, the police actually believed that this horrible set of murders could be the result of the mafia or some sort of dodgy business deal gone wrong. Jose was worth a lot of money ($14 million dollars to be exact plus a $5 million dollar life insurance policy) and he had a lot of enemies. Who could believe that these two, nice young boys could ever do such a thing to their own parents? Lyle was 21 and Erik was 18. I think the cops looked at the house, the fancy cars etc and put 2 and 2 together and came up with 500. Questions raised about how a man from Cuba had come to America and who started out washing dishes to make money, could have amassed such huge success, luxury and wealth. Erik was an absolute mess, they couldn't imagine him killing a spider let alone his own parents, he was like a little boy but was it all an act? 

Whatever the story, the pair of them lived the high life for 7 months whilst the cops went looking in other directions for mob ties, dodgy non-existent drug deals gone wrong etc. The thing that really sealed their fate and raised eyebrows, was the fact that within a short space of time they had learned (they claimed they believed that they had been cut out of their father's will) that suddenly they were multi-millionaires thanks to their father's fortune and they couldn't contain their excitement. There didn't seem to be any upset, any grief. They didn't act like two young boys who had walked into a horrible bloodbath where their parents had been brutally murdered. Other people would be in bed, crying non-stop, on valium, totally beside themselves but not the Menendez brothers, they decided to do a little shopping and bought fancy dinners, cars and holidays. Lyle bought a Rolex and a restaurant, Erik was going to invest some money into a concert. They were spending like mad and in the space of 7 months they blew $700,000. 

Erik (who was apparently sick of Tennis and said that his father forced him to do sports) hired a full time Tennis coach and went on a tournament and ended up in Israel. Before this though, he'd dropped an absolute bombshell at Dr. Jerome Oziel's office and told him everything. The whole situation with Dr Oziel was an absolute shambles and it was hard to keep track cause this Dr was a drama all in himself. Originally, Lyle and Erik were sent to Dr Oziel by Jose after the thefts and they did talk about their childhoods but after the murders, Erik (as, knowing a bit about his nature) started to crumble and couldn't keep quiet so he went to see Dr Oziel. Lyle was absolutely furious and according to Dr Oziel's secretary (who he'd been having an affair with at the time - he was married with kids too), she heard through the door that Lyle said that they would have to kill Dr Oziel. It was all a big drama with Dr Oziel, claiming to be in fear for his life and the life of his family so he told the boys that he was recording their sessions and the tapes would be in a secure location so that if they did indeed murder him, the cops would come after them. It was a security policy on his part but then (according to Lyle and Erik), Dr Oziel was asking questions about the money they inherited and started to put possible business ventures to them. Dr Oziel said he would keep things quiet but his mistress went to the police and the next minute, Lyle's being arrested and Erik flew back to the US and handed himself in. 

(Lyle and Erik with their lawyer, Leslie Abramson: yahoo)

The trial took a while to come about because there was a lot of issues with the tapes that Dr Oziel had recorded of the brothers and it was to be decided if they would be able to be heard in court. After a couple of years of back and forth it was decided that 2 out of the 3 tapes could be played in court and so the trial finally went ahead. 

The Menendez trial was shown on Court TV which was still in it's infancy at the time, it brought America to a standstill. The trial lasted 5 months and resulted in two hung juries. Straight away it was decided that there would have to be a retrial and this time, it was a different judge, different rules and that meant no cameras or media sensation around this new trial. In order to get any information about what took place in court on any particular day, the media had to wait for written accounts of what had transpired. By this point, the public were beginning to be less focused on the case. The 1993 trial had been so sensationalised and so shocking that they didn't think there was anything new to learn about the case. Both Erik and Lyle were sentenced to life imprisonment without the possibility of parole so right now, as it stands, they will die in prison. 

Since they've been in prison they haven't been short of endless letters by female (& male) admirers. They get everything from letters from abuse survivors to naked pictures from lonely housewives. It's crazy to think that Lyle is now 55 and Erik is 52, they've spent such a huge chunk of their lives in prison and missed out on so much. But what was it all for? Were they really two traumatised, abused kids who thought that killing their parents was the only option? or was it all just pure greed and lies? I find it really hard to believe that they were not sexually abused by Jose, this is just my opinion. Going from his background in Cuba, being molested himself and the pure hatred and anger that those boys felt for their parents. What they did was overkill, it wasn't a quick splash of poison in a glass of wine or a quick push down the stairs....they shot the hell out of both of them and then for it to be so up close and personal, the shot to the back of Jose's head and the horrific moment when Lyle walked up to his mother and shot her right in the face, it's just insane. 

Those boys had nothing but hatred for their parents, that anger had to come from somewhere and the way they spent their father's money, almost as if to taunt him and gloat. It was like a celebration for them both. That's a lot of hatred right there and that leads me to believe that there is some truth to what they were saying about the abuse. 

(The grave of Kitty & Jose Menendez. Picture credit: grunge)

The details of the sexual abuse was horrific and they both sat there in a crowded courtroom with the whole of America watching them on TV sharing these disgusting details of being molested and forced to do this and forced to do that, absolutely humiliating. Why would they put themselves through all that? Sympathy? All they had to say was that Jose had touched them once and that would be quite enough to make people sick and feel some sort of empathy for them but what they talked about was just nightmare after nightmare and to me, it explains a lot of that rage and anger. 

If they are indeed, true survivors of sexual abuse I think it does explain quite a lot, even the petty crimes. Stupid behaviour when they lived in a mansion and were privileged so there was no need to steal. Sometimes, people who have been abused carry out strange behaviours as a way of trying to gain some control back. I'm wondering if a lot of what they did during the murders and afterwards was their way of fighting back and getting control, we know its wrong but who know's where a person's mind is when they've spent years being molested by their own father. 

I remember a horrible part during the trial where Erik spoke in detail of how his father forced his penis into his backside and he yelled and cried in agony. Jose told him ''Next time you yell, I'm going to beat you so bad you'll never be able to yell again.'' 

As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, this was going to be a very difficult and disturbing journey and it does throw up a lot of questions.

Both Erik and Lyle have had various relationships behind bars and they have exhausted appeals but they are still no near to ever getting out of prison. There are some people who believe it's time that they were released, they do have a lot of supporters. If they were to be released, I think it would be appropriate for them to be out on licence for the rest of their lives that way they are monitored to some extent. Also, I think it's right that they do not have access to their parents money. At the end of the day they committed murder in the most brutal fashion and the whole thing was horrific and hard to take in but walking up to your own mother and shooting her in the face? I don't even know what to say about that. 

Erik and Lyle had been serving their sentences in separate prisons up until 2018 where they were finally reunited. When they were able to see each other again after so many years they embraced and were very emotional. 

(Erik & Lyle in recent times. Picture credit: abcnews)

Well, if you've made it this far, I take my hat off to you, I really appreciate it as always. This concludes my Partners In Crime Series and wow.....what a case to finish with! Disturbing to say the least but a case which people still talk about today. I could go into the connection between OJ Simpson and the Menendez brothers but this post is long enough (basically they befriended OJ in prison and offered him advice) so I will end it here. 

A little bit of strange trivia: I'm a huge fan of Fright Night (1985) as you may know and during the time of the release of it's sequel: Fright Night 2, Jose Menendez, who was the chairman of Live Entertainment at the time, was in talks to make a third Fright Night movie but sadly it wasn't to be. With Jose's shocking death, a lot of things got put on hold or were never to come to fruition, Fright Night 2 suffered greatly from lack of promotion but we still love it all these years later, it's a hidden gem but I have no doubt if the horrible events of the 20th of August 1989 had not have happened, the movie would have been appreciated more and we could have had a third classic Fright Night movie. 

Also, The Billionaire Boys Club (BBC) was mentioned a lot in the trial, it was alleged that they boys were inspired by this mini-series that was based on a true crime case, inspired the boys to kill their parents as they apparently mentioned that the father in the series, reminded them of Jose. You can find the series here 

Erik denied that BBC inspired them to murder their parents but he claimed that he was friends with one of the boys involved with the case. 

Further Reading & Sources:

- The Menendez Murders | Book by Robert Rand

- The Menendez Trials | Menendez Trials Youtube

- Menendez: A Killing In Beverly Hills | TV Movie

- The Billionaire Boys Club | TV Series

- Lyle & Erik Menendez | Wikipedia

- Menendez Article | Biography

- Erik & Lyle Menendez | Crime Museum

- Jose Menendez | Find A Grave Memorial

- Kitty Menendez | Find A Grave Memorial

- The Menendez Brothers: Erik Tells All | Channel 4

- The Menendez Brothers | Court TV

- The Menendez Brothers on Netflix: Article | Forbes


RIP Jose & Kitty 


UPDATE: A new series based on the Menendez case will begin streaming on September 19th (2024) on Netflix. For more details, check out this article!


UPDATE: Sept 2024. The Netflix series 'Monsters: The Lyle & Erik Menendez Story' was released on the 19th of September. As was expected, some details were not accurate and some scenes were created for dramatic effect (as if the case wasn't dramatic enough). I managed to watch half of it before giving up, having studied the case and watched the trial many times, it was driving me mad with the inaccuracies that kept popping up. The brothers themselves were not happy especially with the portrayal of Lyle (not to take away from the actors as everyone played their parts brilliantly). Erik spoke out in defence of his brother with the statement: 

''I believed we had moved beyond the lies and ruinous character portrayals of Lyle, creating a caricature of Lyle rooted in horrible and blatant lies rampant in the show. I can only believe they were done so on purpose. It is with a heavy heart that I say, I believe Ryan Murphy cannot be this naive and inaccurate about the facts of our lives so as to do this without bad intent. It's sad for me to know that Netflix's dishonest portrayal of the tragedies surrounding our crime have taken the painful truths several steps backward - back through time to an era when the prosecution built a narrative that males were not sexually abused, and that males experienced rape trauma differently than women. Those awful lies have been disrupted and exposed by countless brave victims over the last two decades who have been broken through their personal shame and bravely spoken out. So now Murphy shapes his horrible narrative through vile and appalling character portrayals of Lyle and of me and disheartening slander''.

Just weeks after this series, Netflix will be releasing a documentary on the 7th of October (The Menendez Brothers) which will feature both Lyle and Erik, telling their story in their own words. 


More updates to follow.....


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