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New York's Island of Death: Hart Island | Dark History With Caledonian Kitty

(Collage created by the blog owner. All picture credits: The Hart Island Project)

*Please be aware that I will be discussing death, substance abuse, homelessness and stillborn deaths in this post which will be distressing for some readers. I have tried to be as sensitive as always with talking about such sad situations and tried to share information in a manner that is more sensitive without taking away from the facts* 

The city of New York is the place that they say is where dreams are made. There's no mistaking how iconic it is, how breathtaking the architecture is, from the stunning landmarks such as the Empire State Building, the beautiful yet poignant memorial to the victims of 9/11, right through to the breathtaking New York Public Library. The city is steeped in history and has many famous occupants, as well as all of these positives, the city has sure seen it's fair share of heartache and struggles over the decades. The horrific events of 9/11 knocked this lion of a city off of it's feet and it was utterly devastating but in what seemed like a short space of time, the rest of the world watched in awe as we saw the people of New York get back on their feet, work together and almost re-build their city not only after such destruction but also in strength, determination and patriotism. We were inspired and I've always had a love for New York since I was a child and used to draw pictures of the twin towers. Watching how they faced such horror and the lives who were sadly lost, the bravery and kindness of people just left a mark on me that will never leave. To this day I still have a huge admiration for New York and it's people. 

I mentioned recently that I was going to be including some more Dark History posts to this blog. If you're a regular reader of mine (thank you, I love you!) you will already be aware that I have covered various historical events and stories in the past to positive feedback. I've now decided to have this as a regular addition to my blog, the true crime, serial killer posts will continue but every now and then I will cover some dark history just to add something a little different to my work/blog. 

In this post I will be delving into the other side of New York, a side that not many people know (especially outside of the city) and a place that people, not native to New York will have heard of. On the other side of the beautiful architecture, the flashing lights, the hustling and bustling streets of the big apple, the city that never sleeps....is an island not that far from the glitz, glamour, the yellow taxi cabs and breathtaking skyscrapers, and it is called 'Hart Island'. A place that is not spoken about but inhabits over 1 million people, over 1 million deceased adults and babies to be exact and I hope my description doesn't come across as sounding morbid but that is a sad fact. 

Those who know New York like the back of their hand will know all about Hart Island but yet there are some people who have lived in the city all of their lives and never knew it existed. It has always been a place that people didn't want to discuss, it was a dark place, a haunting place and a very sad place. It was a place that nobody wanted to go and nobody wanted to end up. Native New Yorkers would be told that the island was a place where people who were unloved would go when they passed away with nobody to claim their remains and it instilled a fear and a determination never to end up there. 

I initially thought that my research into Hart Island was due to the heartbreaking connection to the late child star, Bobby Driscoll (who was buried on Hart Island after months of his remains now being identified) who I have just written about in my previous post but I was thinking about this a few days ago and realised that Hart Island was first brought to my attention some years ago during the Covid pandemic. I remember feeling horrified when videos emerged online of what was being reported as 'mass graves being dug in New York', there was clips going around social media declaring that New York had run out of places to bury people who had died from complications connected to Covid. It was frightening but I was soon informed by a New Yorker that the burials were indeed due to Covid but that the place where the burials were had been there for decades and that this was standard procedure (as heartbreaking as it was) for deceased people who had no family or friends to claim their remains. The hell we all went through with Covid was an experience that I'm sure none of us enjoy looking back on but with the usual goings-on of life, Hart Island somehow fell to the back of my mind but it was brought to the forefront again this past few weeks because of Bobby Driscoll

So, after what seems like a lengthy introduction, I think we need to look back at the history of Hart Island and it is an isolated island that is located at the western side of Long Island Sound in New York. It's not an easy location to get access to and to get on to the Island you have to use a ferry. Hart Island, although known today as New York's greenest cemetery and one of the largest publicly funded cemeteries in the world, it has been a location for various different things over the decades, from a prison, to a workhouse, a hospital to a site purely used for burial. It's also an eerie fact to learn that Hart Island was looked at as a possible location for a theme park at one point in history. To think of it as a place where people would go to have fun and be full of positivity to have it be the way it actually became which, for a long time was a very dark place full of sorrow. 

Don't get me wrong, a cemetery is a place that is not known for being a place of sheer happiness, it is often a very sad place which invokes feelings of grief, regret and memories of loved ones no longer with us but we go to pay our respects and have time to reflect at our loved ones graves. The difference with Hart Island in an area known as 'Potter's Field' is that the majority of the deceased buried there, died unidentified, for a lot of these poor people there are no names, no history for them, they sadly died penniless on the streets of New York and were placed there because authorities had nowhere else to put them and no family to take care of their funeral arrangements. It wasn't only homeless people who were buried there, stillborn babies who were born to substance addicted mothers were placed there too in tiny boxes. Every week the number of the deceased would grow and grow to the point that prisoners nearing the end of their sentences were given the task of partaking in the heartbreaking weekly burials of the less fortunate New Yorkers. 

In the beginning, 20 Union Army soldiers were said to have been the first people to have been buried on Hart Island. Around 1868, members of the public began to be buried there, the first person to have their remains placed there was a woman by the name of Louisa Van Slyke. As time went on and more and more people were buried there, the name of the burial location was then known as 'Potter's Field' and by 1958 records show that more than 500,000 people had been placed there, a lot of them babies. The majority of the decedents were homeless, stillborn babies and people who just couldn't afford to pay for a burial. As mentioned before, to keep up with the constant weekly influx of boxes of bodies arriving by ferry to the Island, prisoners were paid a small fee and given the task to dig trenches and bury the makeshift wooden coffins. It was very hard work as well as traumatising and upsetting. 

(Prisoners work together to help bury some of New York's unidentified decedents on Hart Island. Picture credit: The Hart Island Project)

Anyone who has had the experience of working on the Island will tell you that the thing that always got to them the most was the burials of the babies. The tiny boxes with no names, just numbers, all stacked on top of each other or side by side (not like we have with a usual burial). The sight of a coffin in general at a funeral or even in this case, a make-shift wooden box is never a pleasant experience and when it is that of a baby it is something that is too heartbreaking for words. Though years may have past and certain people may no longer work on the Island, the memory of the babies forever endures and people shed tears and your heart goes out to them but there's also a gratitude towards them because it showed that they cared and those babies were buried by someone who really felt for them and that means a whole lot. 

(A prisoner having the heartbreaking task of organising the small coffins to be placed into the makeshift grave at Hart Island. Picture credit: The Hart Island Project)

On a personal note I remember the day of the funeral of my niece Chloe, she was a stillborn baby and her coffin was the size of a shoe box. I was younger at the time and was trying to get my head around it all but the moment the tiny coffin was placed into the grave, I (and everyone there) was overcome with grief and I have never forgotten that moment. I remember my Dad saying that there was something even more heartbreaking about the death of a baby, it's hard to lose a loved one who's an adult but there's a bit of comfort in knowing that they had a bit of life where as a little baby hasn't had the chance to live and grow up and experience all that life has to offer and it's so heartbreaking and unfair. Seeing the coffin of a baby is something you never forget and I cannot imagine what it must have been like for all of these people who faced that every week and were responsible for burying these poor babies. Taking also into consideration that these babies didn't even have a start in life and were nameless, it's just so terribly sad. 

Hart Island was off-limits to the public for a very long time, the general public was not allowed to go there and it was all kept very secretive but the weekly burials continued. In time, some members of the public had relatives who were buried at Potter's Field and were able to prove their identity, those relatives were allowed to visit now and again but it was a regular thing and only a very small number of people were allowed. Authorities were very strict about visitors. 

So, for a very long time the homeless and forgotten people of New York were placed in unmarked mass graves at Potter's Field, in the 1980's a lot of victims who had died from AIDS related illnesses were also buried there as well as later on, Covid related decedents being added to the numerous souls on the Island. For years, the relatives and friends of the deceased that were identifiable and known 100% to have been buried on the Island were campaigning for changes to me made, they wanted it to be more accessible for friends and family. An incredible woman by the name of Melinda Hunt who had been one of the very few to have visited the island with permission in 1991 to take some photographs for a book she was working on with her colleague, Joel Sternfeld, had met a woman who's baby had been previously buried on the Island. The lady explained about what happened to her baby and how she had been in the hospital when she was told her baby was sadly deceased and that they would take care of the burial arrangements without further details. This was a common practice in New York at that time for stillborn babies, some who were unidentified and some who's mothers had been in the hospital with no financial means of arranging a suitable burial for their child. The women put their trust and faith in the system but soon found that they had to fight to be able to visit their child's grave and in many cases it was difficult for many babies to be identified, some were told it would never be possible because unfortunately their baby was placed with others in a mass grave. 

Hart Island, despite the heartbreak of the reality is a truly beautiful place and the very few who have been on the Island have said that it did give them some comfort (despite not knowing the exact location of the burial of their loved one or to know the reality that their relative was there) that this beautiful and peaceful place was were their loved ones were laid to rest. 

Melinda put her heart and soul into campaigning for more access for the public and for changes to be made, to preserve Hart Island, to give it the proper respect the location deserved as well as the deceased, to maintain it and treat it as a historical site with the focus on identifying as many people as possible. She also wanted to make sure that the people who were identified were remembered. 

In 2019, huge changes came about thanks to Melinda and her fellow campaigners, she had created the site The Hart Island Project which focused on what I previously mentioned and also with the ideal that everything be transferred over to the NYC Parks Department which is what finally happened. Hart Island was finally getting the respect that it deserved and although there was some hardships along the way especially with the Covid pandemic, Melinda and her team pushed through and a lot of important changes continued to be made, all of the decayed buildings were removed and the surroundings maintained giving the Island more of a beauty spot feel rather than the dark and cold place that it appeared to be before because of the old ruins. 

The Hart Island Project continues to work on keeping the Island as natural and maintained as possible and believe that the burial process on the Island should remain to continue, which it does. The Project believe that the burial process which has been the procedure for decades is more natural, affordable and better for the environment. They want this process of burial to be available for everyone in New York no matter a person's status or background. Their plan is to have people from all walks of life to be buried there to help remove the stigma that the Island has. The truth is as Melinda has previously stated, the Island actually has people buried there from all different parts of New York, anyone can become homeless or fall into substance misuse. A lot of the deceased on Hart Island were once in a more stable financial situation in their lives, some had professional positions but maybe lost a job or became ill and couldn't afford to pay for their homes etc. One man's story I had read about, had a family and was a successful businessman but he suffered from alcoholism and it took over his life to the point he lost everything and ended up on the street. Despite this man having people who loved him (but could never find him because he would vanish for long period of time) he still ended up on Hart Island. There's all kinds of heartbreaking stories related to Hart Island and the majority of New Yorkers do know someone who's buried on there, whether it be a former work colleague, a distant relative or maybe a close loved one because not everyone can afford to pay for a funeral. 

As it stands, with all of the changes coming into place, the prisoners no longer work on the Island, those roles were taken over by the Parks Department. Relatives are able to visit but it is by appointment only and on certain dates of the month (which is two days of the month and it must be either a Saturday or Sunday). Despite some of the positives that have happened thanks to Melinda, The Hart island Project and the Parks Department, the visiting routine is still an issue. The process is very much like going to visit someone in prison. You have to fill in an online form with plenty of notice beforehand, you also have to prove that you are a close relative to the deceased. You are allocated a time and two hours only which is also taken up by the ferry journey. There are occasions where people will turn up at the gates for the ferry and it won't show up or come late, which takes time off of their visit. It's not the ideal situation and the Project are hoping for this to be improved. The visits right now are a sort of pot luck situation, some people get their requests through in time and some have to wait. If you don't show up or can't show up for your visit or are late, they will strike you off the visiting record for about 6 months and only after then will you be able to fill in a request form again. 

Despite some of the teething problems with visiting, everything seems to be having a step in the right direction, the project and the Parks department have been issued more funds and improvements are continuing to be made. There are a lot of positives that have come out of all of what was once a heartbreaking and very dark situation. With the kind hearted people who have worked so hard to improve the Island and make it what it is today as well as showing their care for the people who are laid to rest there, it really does show how beautiful and kind a lot of human beings can be. I think Melinda and all who are involved with the care and maintenance of Hart Island are truly angels on this earth. 

I have included below a documentary about Hart Island that you may wish to watch, I highly recommend that you do. I've also included some other clips as well as articles you may find interesting and don't forget to check out  The Hart Island Project where you can find out all sorts of information, it's an incredible site, there are also photographs on there as well as ways to donate and updates on news if you wish to follow what's happening with improvements etc. 

So I hope that this post gave you more knowledge of what Hart island is all about and this once heartbreaking place which is now being respected and appreciated for what it is and what it stands for. All of us are on this earth for a limited time and all of us will die, we know how hard life can be at times and how easy it can be to fall on hard times. Any one of us could end up in a similar situation and in this case as I mentioned at the beginning of this post, New York's people have shown themselves to be some of the warmest and kindest people on earth with what they've been able to achieve with all of this. It would be so easy for people to turn a blind eye and do nothing but Melinda recognised a mother's suffering and the suffering of so many others and chose to go out of her way to devote her time and energy into helping people. God bless Melinda and all those who have worked and continued to work on Hart Island. 

RIP to all of the countless babies, children, men and women who are buried on Hart Island, you will never be forgotten. 

Further Reading & Sources: 

The Hart Island Website

Hart Island | NYC Gov

Hart Island | Time Magazine

The Life & Death of Bobby Driscoll | True Crime With Caledonian Kitty

AIDS/HIV in New York City | Wikipedia

And The Band Played On | Book by Randy Shilts

NYC Correction History | NY Correction History Society

NYC Maps | NYC Gov

Covid-19 Pandemic in New York City | Wikipedia

List of Cemeteries in NYC | Wikipedia

Basic Facts About Homelessness | Coalition For The Homeless

Homelessness in New York | Wikipedia

Homelessness & Poverty in NYC | The Bowery Mission

The Untold Story of New York's Hart Island (Documentary)

Hart Island Documetary | Vox/Youtube

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He Burned Her Alive As She Slept On The Subway Train: The Horrific Murder of Debbie 'Debrina' Kawam

(Debrina's high school year book picture: Picture credit: TOI)

*Please be aware that I will be sharing some disturbing details in this post but I will, as always, try to be as sensitive as I can be without taking away from the facts of the case.*

I'm sure I'm not the only one who was horrified at the horrendous and sheer evil murder of Debrina Kawam in New York on a subway train, just days before Christmas 2024 (22nd of December). At the time Debrina was known as 'The Woman Who Was Burned To Death On The Subway' and it was utterly heartbreaking, unbelievable and it took investigators some time to identify her badly burned remains. It was a horrible situation like something out of the worst horror movie. 

Like a lot of shocked members of the public, I watched the news reports and read the newspaper articles and I couldn't believe the details that were emerging. Debrina, who had fallen on some hard times, was simply on a New York Subway train, she had been homeless after experiencing a difficult period of her life and was on the train around 7:25 am and had fallen asleep. She was just a 57 year old woman, who was homeless, minding her own business and had her belongings beside her. 

As Debrina was asleep, a 33 year old man named Sebastian Zapeta-Calil just randomly walked past her and set fire to her clothing before casually walking off of the train, sitting down on the platform and watching Debrina as she literally (and I'm sorry to say this but this is the facts of the case) burned alive. The monster just sat there. Witnesses said that he did try to 'fan the flames' at one point but his heartless demeanour was there for all to see and captured on CCTV cameras. 

Who could do such an evil thing and why? Debrina and Sebastian were not known to each other, they never even spoke to each other, and even if he did know her or an argument had taken place etc, this horrific and cruel murder should never have happened. 

I never knew Debrina personally but my heart broke for her and when I see her yearbook picture, it still does. The picture I have included of Debrina was her yearbook photograph from high school and when I first saw her picture, I couldn't believe how beautiful she was, like a movie star or a model. This beautiful girl in 1985 with the amazing smile and her whole life ahead of her was so full of promise and the possibilities were endless. She was very talented and popular, former school friends remember her as having time for everyone and always loved a good laugh and a party. She was quoted in the yearbook as saying that her secret ambition was to ''Party Forever''. 

Debrina was involved in a lot of social activities and events in high school, she was known for her ''million dollar smile'' and participation in cheerleading. She was very intelligent and went on to university to study business and marketing but somewhere along the line things just fell off. In the early 1990s, Debrina had been caught working as a sex worker to make ends meet after she fell into a huge amount of debt. She loved her family but from what is known there wasn't a very close relationship with them and a lot of Debrina's circumstances from that time are difficult to track. All we know is that she continued to face a lot difficulties during the 1990's and that continued right up until her heartbreaking death. 

There had been relationships in the past and moments where it looked like she had turned a corner but sadly they didn't last and she fell back on difficult times and an addiction to alcohol would take over. More heartache was to follow when her father passed away. Debrina adored her father but they didn't always communicate and when he passed away she had written online how she loved her father and didn't realise how lucky she had been to have had him in her life until it was too late. Her relationship with her mother wasn't very close but she would still turn to her for help. Not long before Debrina's death, her mother had moved away and for some unknown reason, failed to tell Debrina that she was moving. A neighbour of her mother's recalled later that she used to see both Debrina and her mother out and about from time to time and the relationship between the pair appeared to be quite strained. The neighbour also said that she thought Debrina appeared to have some sort of disability and needed the aid of a walker. 

Debrina had only recently shown up on her mother's doorstep only to find that another woman answered the door and told her that her mother no longer lived at that address, Debrina appeared to be shocked. When the lady offered to take a note of Debrina's phone number just incase her mother did show up again, Debrina simply replied that she didn't own a phone and she just left. 

There is some record of Debrina staying at a homeless shelter in the city for a short period of time before sleeping rough in the Subway. It seems that Debrina had been up and down with difficulties in the 1990s but when her father passed away things took even more of a nosedive and she ended up spending a lot of time homeless. She was a very vulnerable person and many people mentioned they were used to seeing her around the subway. Obviously when she was younger, these difficulties didn't appear to be there but as she got older she had a lot of physical as well as psychological struggles and one wonders if this was due to her addictions and life on the streets. Whatever the case is, it is just truly heartbreaking and her story has really touched me and I just felt that I wanted to share her story, a bit more of her background. I don't feel that it's right that a lot of people just know her for the horrific way that she was murdered. 

Looking again at Debrina's yearbook picture, you see so much light in her glowing smile and positivity of what the future was to hold and then you think of the difficult years that she ended up struggling through and her horrific death. 

Her heartless killer was an illegal immigrant who claims to have been drunk or that he couldn't remember carrying out the evil crime. His face is just soulless, not a shred of remorse or emotion. He's pleaded not guilty despite witnesses and CCTV footage showing every step and action he took. 

(Sebastian Zepeta-Calil. Picture credit. TOI)

Opinions on this case have been divided and some people are uncaring due to the fact that Debrina was homeless and had been in trouble with the law and alcoholism in the past but that should not matter, nobody has the right to walk up to a complete stranger on a public mode of transport and take their lives, whether it be with setting someone on fire, a gun or a knife, nobody has the right to do that. 

As I have been writing this post, arguments are continuing to take place on X about various countries facing a lot of serious problems due to illegal immigration. As we begin 2025, we have already begun to see divides and heated discussions on various issues, one wonders if a compromise or peace can ever be found but one thing is for sure, we have to look out for each other and I just wish that more people could have stepped in to help Debrina. There's rumours that people were stood around filming the whole horrific scene that terrible morning, instead of jumping in and helping. We are living in a world where that is becoming more and more commonplace, people picking up their phones to record crimes but not getting involved. In many ways that is understandable, cause you could put your own life at risk but if you see someone in sheer pain or on fire, at least try something, not just stand there and film it and quite frankly, why would you record that? Anyway, that is just my thoughts on the situation. I would love to read/hear yours. 

Sebastian Zapeta-Calil will be back in court at the end of March and faces life imprisonment. At his recent court appearance in Brooklyn, New York, he needed an interpreter because he could barely speak a word of English (or he pretended not to be able to speak English) and claims to be not guilty. I will update this post if any more news comes up. 

One wonders what it must be like also for Debrina's former high school friends as I can probably imagine with how hectic Debrina's life was, she probably lost contact with a lot of her school friends. I'm sure we've all had those friends or people we knew in high school and wondered whatever became of them, imagine turning on the news to see this type of horrifying story, it must be a terrible shock for them. 

Debrina's nickname at school was 'Deb' or 'Debbie' and as heartbreaking as this case is, I do hope that her school friends remember her how she was back then, full of fun and excitement for the future and not what happened later because there was so much more to the beautiful and intelligent person who just somehow lost their way in life and ended up having her life taken in the most evil way. 

I wish I had a magic wand, not just in this case but in all the cases I've covered. I wish we could go back so that Debrina would be in a better place and not on that train on the 22nd of December but that is just wishful thinking. 

RIP Debrina, you will never be forgotten and to many, many strangers like me, you are not just the woman who was murdered on the subway, you are so much more and will be remembered for the light that you did bring into the world in the good times and your glowing smile. I hope you are at peace. 

Further Reading & Sources:

Subway Murder Case: Article | CBS News

Subway Murder Case: Article | Times of India

Subway Murder Case: Article | The New York Times

Subway Murder Case: Article | CBS News

Subway Murder Case: Article | The Free Press

Debrina Kawam: Article | BBC News

Debrina Kawam: Reddit Discussion Thread

Debrina Kawam: Article | NBC News

New York City Subway | Wikipedia

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