My Stalker Story: Part Two ''It just keeps getting worse and worse'' | Personal Post


Continued from part one...(see previous post)


So, he was on his knees in front of me crying and shouting, begging and saying sorry in the middle of the street. I felt panic and just wanted rid of him. I couldn't bare the sight of him. He was a convincing liar, I'll give him that. I told him to calm down. He wanted me to get into his car but I refused and told him to go home. He wouldn't shut up so I told him to call me and we'd talk about it over the phone. He said he was going to get alcohol and crash his car, I told him not to be stupid and tried to calm him down. I told him I would talk to him on the phone. I made up a lie that my Dad was coming over to visit so that helped get rid of him.

As soon as I got into the house, I still felt in shock and my phone started going already with the bloody text messages. The texts were just a load of crap telling me he was sorry etc etc. Part of me was interested to hear how he was going to get himself out of this one, what lies was he going to use to excuse all of this. He'd got himself into a sticky situation and I was wondering how he was going to get himself out of it. I wondered about the Wife's brother too, was he on the way to tell his wife what he had seen?

I made myself a cup of tea (I really wanted a whisky that night lol) and my phone rang. It sounded like he was in a bathroom with the tap running (probably so the wife couldn't hear) and he was crying, begging, pleading and saying how sorry he was and that I was the love of his life (load of crap basically). I asked what happened with the wife's brother and he said ''don't worry, I've sorted it! he won't be saying a word, I have enough dirt on him''. I couldn't believe this guy, he was like a master manipulator, some kind of psychopath. He really thought he was clever and had an answer for everything. he thought he could get his way out of anything. 

I sat with disbelief as he proceeded to tell me that the reason he said ''tell him Jo, that nothing is going on between us'' was because his Wife's brother doesn't know that they're divorced and that he and his ex wife have to pretend that they are still married because his wife's family wouldn't approve and they would cut her and his son out of their lives. He said that he didn't want that for his son. I wasn't buying it. He then told me to remember all of the nice things that he had done for me and how he had been there for me when nobody else had. He also said ''Remember all of the private and personal things that you've told me about work and the texts that you've sent me, I will still keep them private unless you do something to really hurt me''. 

Come to think of it, I remember him always pressuring me to send him some nudes. I never did and I would advise women never to do this, unless you are married and you know 100% you can trust that other person. I think he wanted nude pictures of me so that he could use them later on as blackmail. 

Another bombshell which I didn't see coming.....he told me that his wife (or as he called her 'ex-wife') worked at the same company we did but at a different branch, however, mostly everyone at our branch knew her!! So that would explain all of the gossipping and dirty looks from people. It suddenly dawned on me that people at work must have thought I was a right scarlet woman (I can imagine worse words than that) seeing a married man. This situation just kept getting worse and worse. 

He told me not to worry about his so-called ex wife and that he would explain to her the situation so that I didn't get any trouble at work. This guy was such a piece of work. At the time my head was all over the place but looking back now it's as plain as day to me this guy was bad news from start to finish. 

I listened to his crap for a about an hour or so and told him that it would be better if we were just friends (I had no intention of being his friend, I was just trying to make it sound a bit more gentle) but this was no good. He sent me a picture of his hand all covered in blood and said ''what do I have to do to prove to you how sorry I am and how much I love you''. I told him to get to the hospital for stitches and that I would think about things (I still wanted to end it but he was making things really difficult. I didn't like the guy but I didn't want him to hurt himself and he was that much of a nutcase that you could imagine him going that step further).

I don't think I slept that night. I got a text about 3 or 4 in the morning from him with a picture of his hand all bandaged up (he told me he'd been to the hospital but for all I know his wife could have bandaged it up for him) and a couple of packs of pills next to his hand as if to warn me that he would take them at some point. Oh and if you're wondering what his excuse for the wife was, he said that he lived in the same house as her for the sake of his son and that they slept in different bedrooms. 

He told me he was divorced but he had to make it look like he was still married. He said ''why do you think I've spent so much time with you, if I was really married wouldn't my wife be looking for me''. I did notice back then that he always had his phone on silent and I would see it flashing every now and then so that could have been his wife looking for him, lord knows what stories he gave her.

So I had to go into work the next day knowing that everyone thought I was a homewrecker and that I would have to face him after everything that had just happened.

Continued in part three......